2 years agoAlso complaining takes the fault/solution away from self. Complainers look at what this person did or didn’t do, but we ought to look at ‘what can I do to make up for this persons shortcomings?’
2 years agoI have a personal policy about this. It’s best explained. I may comment on the cold in America, but once I get to Nigeria, I cannot comment on the heat. At that point, if I comment on the heat, I’m not just expressing a dissatisfaction; I’ve become a complainer. This is something that can be applied in many areas.
