Gabriel Colby Luvan

There was a time in my marriage where i let anger sit too long.

I didnt yell. I didnt explode. Just… went quiet.

Days without really talking to my wife. Same condo, same responsibilities…but
distant.

The weight of parenting had me so stretched that small inconveniences started feeling like deep disappointments.

And all i knew for processing it was “holding my peace”. “If you got nothing good to say, dont say anything.” But that didnt give voice to what i needed to be heard.

And so… I held it.

But anger doesn’t just visit—
it looks for somewhere to stay.

And if you let it rest, it will start shaping how you see everything…
even the people you love.

This song is a reminder to myself:
don’t let it live here ❤️

“Anger came to visit… but I didn’t let it have a home.”

If you’re holding onto something right now… give it to Jesus.

Because unforgiveness doesn’t just sit in your heart,
it stands in the way of what God is trying to do through you.

We’re not called to hold onto offense.
We’re called to crucify it.

As husbands, we don’t get the luxury of staying in our flesh.
We’re called to love like Christ

to lay ourselves down so our bride can flourish.

Forgiveness isn’t weakness.
It’s obedience.

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” — Ephesians 4:32

“Bear with each other and forgive one another… forgive as the Lord forgave you.” — Colossians 3:13

No condemnation.
May you receive the grace to come higher!