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Photo by Oyin Olúdìpè on June 06, 2026.
Photo by Oyin Olúdìpè on June 06, 2026.
Photo by Oyin Olúdìpè on June 06, 2026.
Photo by Oyin Olúdìpè on June 06, 2026.
Photo by Oyin Olúdìpè on June 06, 2026.
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Posted On: June 6th 2026, 08:41 am
The understated cost of being young, and responsible, and masculine.

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toby_abiodun 5 months ago

toby_abiodun

I have a profound detest for people who make ‘providing’ to be the easiest thing a man can do. I have legit seen men die while working for the money that people term ‘just providing’. I have watched a man get electrocuted to death, have watched a man fall back first from a three story building into a pile of concrete, have seen a man run mad while we were working under the hot sun mixing concrete. Provision itself requires life threatening work often times in a country like ours, so the diminishing of it often does my head in.

professor_fabunmi 5 months ago

professor_fabunmi

Beautiful write up sir oyin

shegz___ 5 months ago

shegz___

Wow! Men!! Love this. 🔥🔥🙌

samengee_family_hub 5 months ago

samengee_family_hub

I truly see and understand this ❤️❤️ thanks for sharing. I try to do things differently for my husband, I value and appreciate the visible and invisible work that he does!! Men should talk about it more esp to each other.

helen.is.light 5 months ago

helen.is.light

It’s that the men who who were supposed to transfer the knowledge, mostly passed down the “holding it in” version “dont crack under the pressure” facade. This conversation you have started needs to stay. It’s uncomfortable, but discomfort is fine so long as it births healthy growth. I absolutely loved reading this

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