Diksha Puri

Abhilasha (anonymous) was brilliant. She was the VP of a high-growth tech firm, a driving force, and an absolute visionary. But when she first came to me for executive coaching, she was also... exhausted.

She’d send emails at 2:00 AM. Her calendar was booked solid with meetings and ‘urgent’ fire drills. Her team respected her, but I could see they were mirroring her stress. The relentless pace was becoming their culture.

Our breakthrough didn’t come from a new management framework. It came from a challenging question I put to her.
“Abhilasha, when was the last time you sat still, uninterrupted, for 30 minutes, not to problem-solve, but just to think?”

There was a long silence. The truth was, never.
She thought ‘self-care’ meant taking a vacation (which she’d work through). She thought ‘self-introspection’ was a weakness—a pause that would let her competitors pull ahead.
We flipped the script.

We started blocking out 30 minutes of ‘thinking time’ on her calendar every morning. Then, we scheduled regular, small ‘resets’—like a 10-minute walk without her phone or even just a moment to enjoy a cup of coffee without checking email.
It wasn’t a magic cure, but a fundamental shift.

With time to pause, Abhilasha stopped merely reacting and started leading. The introspection allowed her to identify her leadership triggers. The self-care gave her the energy to handle them with patience and clarity. She wasn’t just directing her team; she was empowering them.

The Lesson: You cannot pour from an empty cup.

To be an exceptional leader, you have to prioritize the leader first. Self-introspection isn’t a indulgence; it’s a strategic tool. Self-care isn’t laziness; it’s essential for sustained high performance.

Your team mirrors your energy. Are you leading with resilience, or are you leading with burnout?
If this story resonates with your leadership journey, let’s connect. What’s one small change you’ve made to prioritize your well-being?

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