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Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of poster, tea and teacup.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of magazine and book.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of poster.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of poster.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of poster.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of magazine, poster and office.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of poster.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of cigarette and poster.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of poster.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on August 16, 2026. May be an image of card and poster.
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Posted On: August 17th 2026, 12:50 am
We fired an actor after he called his female co-star fat during a table read and suggested that she go on a diet.

This wasn’t a misunderstanding. It wasn’t an awkward joke. It was a grown man humiliating the person he was about to work closely with, in front of the rest of the cast and production team.

Actors don’t get to decide whether their scene partner’s body is acceptable. They don’t get to make cruel comments and then expect everyone else to dismiss it as humour.

Production immediately addressed the situation and asked us to replace him. I spent hours finding someone new, but honestly, I was happy to do it. His co-star deserved to arrive on set knowing that the person working opposite her had been removed and that production took her safety and dignity seriously.

Booking the role isn’t the end of the job interview. Your talent matters, but so does how you behave once you’re hired.

There are a lot of talented actors. We don’t need the ones who can’t pass the most basic vibe check.

If you can’t say something kind, don’t say it at all. Talk about amateur hour.

Will never hire that person again. Supply and Demand doesn't favour actors, we should never be need to cast mean ones.
Comments (494)
katarina.and.misscongeniality 2 months ago
mel_the_actor 2 months ago

mel_the_actor

Period.

followyourdreams91 2 months ago

followyourdreams91

I dont understand how someone can be soooo mean! I blame the parents fault!

walkfamilyacts 2 months ago

walkfamilyacts

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

terrikleinhaugen 2 months ago

terrikleinhaugen

Absolutely have to feel respected and safe working with your crew mates and cast 🙌❤️

bransonfiona 2 months ago

bransonfiona

The same is true of comments about disability and chronic health conditions. As a disabled actor on Equity's Disabled Artistes Register, and an Equity member for decades, it is truly awful when medically unqualified cast members, make ignorant comments (nay yet 'jokes') about the very real issues, that you deal with on a daily basis. Don't tell someone with a chronic health condition or physical disability, that they are just being 'difficult' when they explain what they are able - and unable - to do. Respect the fact, that they, and their bona fide Drs, probably know a great deal more, about their body, and what it can, and can't, deliver, than you do!

samanthajopro 2 months ago

samanthajopro

That’s shocking. Well done for sticking up for the female actress. She booked the job and kept the job! He should be asking for advice not dishing it out unsolicited.

actors.collab 2 months ago

actors.collab

Thanks for representing the changes we want to see in the industry. ❤️🔥 If things are going to get better, WE have to make the change happen.

bella.bitran 2 months ago

bella.bitran

I am so grateful that you are standing up for other women! As a Casting Director myself, I would do the same thing✨

oliviairelandofficial 2 months ago
marleigh.arnold 2 months ago

marleigh.arnold

Good choice!

realtimzhang 3 months ago

realtimzhang

My friend showed me a post of yours and Im glad im following you. Im here for the tea 🍵 🤪awesome content 👏

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