CareerBloom  | Leadership & Communication Coach

The real problem isn't that you were soft. It's that you trained your team to expect inconsistency. Now they're waiting to see if this "new you" is real or just another phase

First, stop saying these things:

"I've been too easy on you." "Party's over." "Time to get serious."

These trigger defensive walls you'll never break through.

Here's the 5-step reset I use as a VP and executive leadership consultant to teams that works every time.

Step 1: Own the shift without over-apologizing

"I've been reflecting on how I can better support this team's success, and I'm seeing that I haven't been clear enough about expectations. That's on me. Here's what success looks like going forward..."

Step 2: Start with systems, not people

"We're introducing a new tracking system for project updates."

Not: "You've been dropping the ball."

Step 3: Give the heads-up before enforcing

"Starting Sep 15th, all status updates need to be submitted by noon on Fridays."

Step 4: Document the change in writing

Old way: Verbal check-ins whenever

New way: Written updates every Friday

Make the change visible and measurable.

Step 5: Enforce with empathy

First miss: "I noticed the update didn't come through. Everything okay?"

Second miss: "I'm noticing this is becoming a pattern. What support do you need?"

In the next post, I'll cover how to address habitual violations.

Hi, I'm Armida, Leadership coach, former Corporate VP with 20 years of leadership experience. I break down leadership and communication strategies so follow me for actionable leadership how-tos.@thecareerbloom

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