Alicia Karina Raffin

36 weeks pregnant and honestly… this is the realness no one really talks about. 🤰🏼🫠

I’m so grateful for this baby and so excited to meet our little boy, but I’m also exhausted. My energy is basically nonexistent, my messy bun has become a personality trait, and even the thought of getting ready and leaving the house can feel overwhelming.

There’s also the mom guilt. 💔 Feeling like I’m not able to give Pearl all of my energy and attention right now, even though I know I’m doing my best. I want to be the fun, energetic mom she deserves, but some days my body is just asking me to slow down.

I’ve been missing events, saying no to plans, and spending a lot more time at home because going anywhere feels like a whole production. And honestly? I’m learning that it’s okay.

This season is temporary. I’m allowed to be tired. I’m allowed to not do everything. I’m allowed to count down the days while still being grateful for this little life growing inside me. 🤍

Just taking it one day at a time now. 36 weeks down… 4 more to go. 💙