8 days agoSoooo…. Do pets do this too? Bc my shorkie poo did the most after I was gone that my autistic self could NOT deal with the punishment behaviors…. I gave her to my nephew who I know will NEVER leave her. I feel like Lady Sophia is anxiously attached…. Would not take comfort after days of attention
8 days agoThe fact she even posted this bullshit is why this generation is doomed.
10 days agoI miss him. He calls me when he has a moment. If I’m gone I call him when I have a moment. But I definitely miss him a lot a lot. Like I prefer him to be by my side always, but I like that we’re both independent people with our own understanding of autonomy. And that we never get mad when he has boys trips or I go see my family alone because he has to work etc. but we definitely give each other huge hugs and updates and laugh and cuddle immediately when we’re back from wherever. He’s away at a work conference rn and I miss him sooo much! 18 years later I think it’s working out for us. lol! We’re both still so in love.
13 days agoCan you talk a little more about why the last type of child is more alarming to see?
15 days agoThe anxious attachment frame makes so much sense here. Being mad after being away is not about the boyfriend, it is the reunion stirring up every old attachment panic.
15 days agoGetting angry at the person you missed is such a confusing feeling. So often it's the missing, coming out sideways.
