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Posted On: October 16th 2026, 01:01 pm
“I get so mad at my boyfriend when I’m away from him for a while. Like, I get angry at him.”

#mentalhealth #therapy #relationshiptips #dating #anxiousattachment
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estelarodriguezjebril 4 days ago

estelarodriguezjebril

🔥🔥🔥

marliecorbz 8 days ago

marliecorbz

Yo Jeff why do you "need" anything from the original poster

lotusopallux 8 days ago

lotusopallux

Soooo…. Do pets do this too? Bc my shorkie poo did the most after I was gone that my autistic self could NOT deal with the punishment behaviors…. I gave her to my nephew who I know will NEVER leave her. I feel like Lady Sophia is anxiously attached…. Would not take comfort after days of attention

notyourusualdadbod 8 days ago

notyourusualdadbod

The fact she even posted this bullshit is why this generation is doomed.

sdm.twilightrose 9 days ago

sdm.twilightrose

May this kind of "love" never find me 🙏

krystley 10 days ago

krystley

I miss him. He calls me when he has a moment. If I’m gone I call him when I have a moment. But I definitely miss him a lot a lot. Like I prefer him to be by my side always, but I like that we’re both independent people with our own understanding of autonomy. And that we never get mad when he has boys trips or I go see my family alone because he has to work etc. but we definitely give each other huge hugs and updates and laugh and cuddle immediately when we’re back from wherever. He’s away at a work conference rn and I miss him sooo much! 18 years later I think it’s working out for us. lol! We’re both still so in love.

maiamhsn 10 days ago

maiamhsn

We need the thats a different video

ner3ida_ 12 days ago

ner3ida_

😢

lana.cardinal 13 days ago

lana.cardinal

Can you talk a little more about why the last type of child is more alarming to see?

skeeteronmy_peter 14 days ago

skeeteronmy_peter

My gf's cat.

readnudge 15 days ago

readnudge

The anxious attachment frame makes so much sense here. Being mad after being away is not about the boyfriend, it is the reunion stirring up every old attachment panic.

jajuliecounselling 15 days ago

jajuliecounselling

Getting angry at the person you missed is such a confusing feeling. So often it's the missing, coming out sideways.

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