Posted On: October 17th 2026, 09:38 pm
In July, my dad passed away.
It was sudden. But I was blessed with something a lot of people don’t get: a few weeks by his side before he went.
I didn’t have to check my phone in that room.
I didn’t have to leave early to cover a class.
I didn’t have to choose.
The gyms ran smoothly without me. The classes were full, new members were joining us, and it was business as usual.
I think a lot about the owners who would have had to choose.
Because if your gym only works when you’re in the building, a moment like that becomes lose-lose.
You stay at the gym and miss the goodbye.
Or you go say goodbye and come back to a business that’s sinking.
Nobody plans for those weeks. That’s the point.
You don’t build systems for the good weeks. You build them for the weeks that break you.
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