10 days agoI need the whole hierarchy setup if not it’s not a go for me. Then again this is all new to me so it may change but as of now it’s exactly what I need.
10 days agoFound out what my partner labeled as Anxious attachment was actually my system finally breaking down from their emotional neglect and abuse. Kicked that nesting partner out after eight years together and now my poly relationships are smooth sailing.
14 days agoI needed this a few years ago. Also, what color nail polish is that? I need that in my life.
14 days agoCan someone explain me what "anxious" means? I feel like people use it very differently and that sometimes confuses me 🙃
14 days agoomg THIS! 👏 I thought that i'm super anxious and jealous and it's just me who isn't made for non-monogamy but no, it was the uncertainty and lack of intentional date nights with my nesting partner. there's not much that hurts more than seeing your partner getting ready, making themselves presentable for someone else while you live everyday life with them 😅😅 kids, don't do the same mistake!
14 days agoI hate the stupid morning and evening texts. It feels like a task that needs to be done, like brushing your teeth. I want to feel important. Not as something that has to be done.
14 days agoAttachment style is less like your horoscope and more like how you relate to someone else: you can have different styles based off the connection with the other person.
