Parenting Beyond Words

Toilet training can feel like a big step, especially when communication is difficult and you're not sure where to begin.

Im sharing our journey with toileting, it was an overwhelming time, up and down & there were plenty of accidents along the way, but we kept building on the little steps.

Here’s what helped us:

1. Visuals to make sense of the routine

Before AAC, we relied on low-tech visuals. His therapist created these visual sequences showing each step of toileting. We put the visuals in the toilet and used Velcro, removing each step as he completed it. This helped him see what he needed to do and what came next. It took alot of time and practise for him to get the hang of it.

2. Making the toilet a comfortable space

Our therapist initially worked with him at home. We started with sitting on the toilet for even a minute at a time, using some of his favourite toys to encourage him to stay.

3. Practising the little skills

Getting on and off the toilet, pulling his pants up and down, and washing and drying his hands were all things we practised along the way.

4. Creating a routine at home

We introduced toilet visits every 30 minutes, giving him regular opportunities to practise.

5. Continuing the practice at daycare

His therapist also worked with him there each week. We were asked to send him in underpants for a period of time, without nappies, so he could practise there each day too.

I'm sharing this because I know some families might be at the beginning of this journey, wondering what to try or where to start.

Every child is different, and this is simply what our journey looked like. Sometimes hearing another family's experience can help us feel a little less alone.

Where are you in the journey? What has or hasn't worked for your child? Share your tips that may help another family too 🤍

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