Ophelia Sun Wang

xjxk3_k1llzx

Why r some ppl trying to defend it so much like</3 No is a no, u only need one. If they're not in the mood its good enough reason, dont try to put them in the mood, if they wanted to be put in the mood they wouldnt say no like what r we doing Like just go jerk off it aint that hard TT if sex is ur #1 priority then ure just hooking up, and even then u gotta respect the no. U dont like it then break up idk..?

n4th4n.the.great

softspot.awareness

To all the people who have experienced this!! We have a self help group for PERPETRATORS. So they will be finally held accountable and hold eachother accountable. Reach out to us or ask questions here on how to approach a perpetrator!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻

jama_lginsberg

I get that it's considered "coercion" but if someone asked me to do something many times i'd just keep saying no, it's that simple.

elephant.8913608

5 minutes is quick?

iwishiwaschoso

I agree, but off topic, did you get into a fight or something?

opheelala

for everyone sending and reposting this to those who may need it, thank you. that’s exactly why I made it🫂👉 @opheelala

asherscarlett7

If its not an enthusiastic yes, you probably shouldn’t be dating

kind_gentleman_24

You guys are asking for sex ? Like " can we have sex " ? For real..I thought sex is a build up of activities from kissing to pounding..if I lead and she participates,it means we are doing it .if she pulls away,it means no..

realalitani

Don't provide mental blocks. Give solutions. If the person says no, wait. Pull away, talk, charm, sway. Try again. Fail again. No ego, no hurt. Make them feel safe after rejection. Pretend the burden was mutual. Change scenery. Inspire jealousy. Seduce.

preston_t_s

I’ve had sex with multiple women I didn’t care to just because they were pushy but since I agreed to it that is still consent. I just made sure they knew i hate it. Like midway through I’ll just stop and tell them I’m bored.