#adlerian

Quote is from Amir Levine on Codependency

How often do we assume we know what’s happening in someone else’s life? In my upcoming conversation with psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr Amir Levine, we explore how our attachment styles shape the way we relate to others, and how easily misunderstandings can arise. The way we perceive others’ actions is filtered through our own experiences, fears, and patterns. Understanding attachment can help us respond with empathy, build more secure relationships, and feel safer in how we connect. COMING SOON to my ‘Feel Better, Live More’ podcast!🎧

The willingness to let go and move on. Comment the word “STUNT” and I’ll send you full episode with @andreas.alfaro

Infatuation is not true love. EP195 with @mitchellvickridge

In episode 38 of F&T we get into some of the Adlerian school of thinking - namely that most of our problems stem from our inter-personal relationships. If you’ve gone from loving your partner to suddenly being irritated by everything they do - you might be too far gone for this snippet! If you’re in the early stages though and wanting to address a small thing with care so that it doesn’t become a resentment, then Adler would have your back. Allowing your relationship to degrade because of this thing that you didn’t address and allowed to repeat thus deepening your resentment is what he’s trying to prevent. Can you relate? Do you agree?

Most partners aren’t trying to hurt you. They’re acting from their worldview, not malice. When you assume positive intent, disagreements become solvable — and connection gets stronger instead of weaker. Watch the full episode by clicking the link in the bio.

LOYALTY AND THE PEOPLE WHO STAY. Lex reflects on the idea that the people you choose to share your life with matter deeply. He points out that real loyalty isn't about words or labels - it's about showing up for each other, especially when life gets difficult. Andrew adds that hardship is the clearest filter for friendship. Challenges quietly reveal who stands with you, who steps forward when things get messy, and who remains consistent when everything else shifts. Their exchange shows that meaningful relationships aren't built on convenience they're built on presence. When someone supports you publicly, privately, and during moments when no one else is watching. that's when you understand the value of connection. True friendships elevate your journey, fuel your growth, and remind you that even during the hardest seasons, you're not walking alone. Speaker: lexfridman hubermanlab #lexfridman #andrewhuberman #mindset

The question no one wants to answer! In this video I pose questions no one so far has been willing to answer that would end the judgements and victim-perpetrator-rescuer dynamics playing out all over socials. I have seen the hate and deep misunderstanding from this interview that paints Dr Demartini as a perpetrator with damaging assumptions being made. This kind of reactivity doesn’t lead to healing - hurt people, hurt people - And on and on it goes. If you are interested in a peaceful solution, I challenge you to answer the questions I have asked both Aubrey and Demartini in this video that bring us back together ❤️🙏 @aubreymarcus @drjohndemartini @jefffosterofficial #aubreymarcuspodcast #freedomtogether

Do you know when you’re wearing your performative hat vs. showing up as your true self? 🤔 @alansteinjr talks about authenticity not just as a motivational speaker, but how it shows up in his personal life. 👉🏼 The internal conflict of how I ‘should be’ versus who I truly am- is one we can all relate to. Tune in to this week’s Ivy Unleashed episode to hear a real, raw and vulnerable conversation about how to bounce back when life requires you to pivot. 🔄 🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts! _ #nextplaymindset #AlanSteinJr #emotionalresilience

Loyalty survives storms. Lex reflects on how the people you allow into your life shape everything. He explains that real loyalty is never about labels or how someone introduces themselves. It is about presence, consistency, and who actually shows up when life becomes difficult. Andrew adds that hardship is the sharpest filter for friendship. Tough seasons quietly reveal who stands beside you, who moves closer when things get messy, and who stays steady when everything around you begins to shift. Hard moments expose the truth. Convenience disappears and character steps forward. Their conversation highlights something powerful. Meaningful relationships are not built on easy days. They are built on people who support you publicly, privately, and during the moments when nobody else is paying attention. True friends elevate your journey. They help you grow. They remind you that even in your hardest chapters, you are never walking alone. Follow @evolve4excellence to fill your day with motivation. Speaker: Lex Fridman, Andrew Huberman ( @lexfridman @hubermanlab ) Video Source: Lex Fridman YouTube DM for credit or removal request (no copyright intended for footage, video, and music) © All rights and credits reserved to the respective owners.) [TrueFriendship, LoyaltyMatters, RealOnes, MeaningfulConnections, CharacterOverConvenience, SupportSystem, RideOrDie, TrustAndRespect, StrongRelationships, GrowthTogether, Brotherhood, LifeLessons] #evolve4excellence #lexfridman #andrewhuberman

Have you experienced this dynamic?