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Desmond Booker Christian Dating, Relationship & Success Coach

@desmondbooker5

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I help High-Achieving Queens heal, & start dating with confidence & step into success. Ready for love &/or success👇
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It's your time and it's your turn! Stop paying a "tax" on your own success. You've spent long enough making sure everyone else is winning, now it's time to make sure you are, too. You don't have to choose between a life that looks good and a life that feels good. I'm Desmond Booker. I help high-achieving Queens reclaim their time and claim the "Double Win" they've been praying for. Whether you’re here to level up your personal success or you’re ready to start dating again with a healed heart—you deserve to win in every area. Here's how you can claim your Double Win: ✅ Total Life Success: Finding your flow, protecting your energy, and winning at your goals without the burnout. This is about your peace and your wellness first. ✅ Heart & Relationship Success: If and when you're ready, I help you attract someone who actually matches your drive and respects your throne. You were called to rule your entire world, not just one corner of it. LET'S START HERE: Which area are you focusing on right now? 1️⃣ My personal growth and success 2️⃣ My dating and love life 3️⃣ Both! Drop a 1, 2, or 3 below! 🔗 Ready for a breakthrough? Click the link in my bio to book a Free 15-Minute Session. Let’s see what your "Next Level" looks like. Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach 🌹Please Like and Follow as I share reels and posts with dating tips, inspiration & success strategies for your life and love life. Please Share if this speaks to you🌹 ❤️I partner with Successful Queens ready to start Successfully Dating and seeing Success in their lives❤️ by @desmondbooker5
"I’ve spent time working with amazing women in my 'Single to Successfully Dating' Membership—helping them heal, shift their mindset, and finally attract the healthy, happy relationship they deserve. Here is what I’ve learned in helping single Queens and other Queens: There are those who are desiring to date and be in a great relationship, but there are those who also are desiring to go to the Next Level in other areas of her life. When you start healing your heart and getting clear on your standards, your ambition starts to change, too. You realize you want more out of your career, your habits, and your personal goals. You don't just want a good relationship—you want a life that matches that same level of excellence or vice versa. That is why I’m officially opening enrollment for 'The Next Level.' Whether you’ve been with me in the dating community or you’re brand new to my work, this is the space where we focus on your personal success and going to the Next Level. In each Membership this is how we work together:: ✅ A Daily Routine: A morning plan to help you own your day before it starts. ✅ Monthly Zoom Training: A live deep-dive class to keep you moving forward. ✅ Monthly Live Q&A on Zoom: A real-time space to troubleshoot your specific hurdles. ✅ Community Support: Access to a private Facebook group full of women who are just as committed as you are to their growth. You’ve proven you have the drive. Now, you need a system designed to help you attract the life, the success, and the partner you know you deserve. If you’re ready to stop chasing and start attracting, let’s talk. I have a 15-minute slot for a free call to see where you are and how we can best support your journey. Book your 15-minute call today at the link in my bio Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship Coach and Success Coach ❤️I partner with Successful Queens ready to start Successfully Dating and seeing Success in their lives❤️ Let's go from Single to Successfully Dating without Settling by @desmondbooker5
Hey Queens! Help me congratulate Queen Dee Dee, @danddbakedgoodsanddesigns, who went through our Single to Successfully Dating Program. She was dating, but attracting the wrong people. She went through our Program and begin to work on herself, letting go of past hurts, found out how to attract the right person, & was transformed into a better version of herself. After the program, she started attracting the right people! She started dating with success & her now future husband found her. She is now engaged and is getting married. Praise God & I am so happy for her! I now have a few open slots if you are wanting to go from Single to Successfully Dating in 2023. Click the link in my bio & schedule a Complimentary Session. Llet's talk to see if we could work together to make your relationship dreams come true! Queens Don't Settle #queensdontsettle #singleblackmoms #singlechristians #widowsofinstagram #singlemamalife #christiansingleswaitingongod #datinginyour30s #singlechristianwomen #datinginyour40s #christiansinglewomen #datingafterdivorce #singlemomslife #singlemombychoice #divorcedmoms #singlemomstruggles by @desmondbooker5
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GODLY MAN PURSUING A WOMAN AND A GODLY MAN CHASING HER. A godly man doesn’t have to beg, pressure, manipulate, or constantly convince a woman to choose him. He can be intentional about his interest while still honoring her freedom to choose. Chasing says: “I need you to choose me.” Pursuing says: “I choose you, and I’m willing to give you the freedom to decide if you want to choose me too.” Here’s the difference: 🔹 Pursuing is intentional. Chasing is desperate. A godly man makes his intentions clear. He doesn’t play games or leave her guessing. 🔹 Pursuing takes initiative. He calls. He communicates. He plans. He makes an effort. He doesn’t sit back waiting for her to do all the work. 🔹 Pursuing is consistent. His interest doesn’t disappear simply because he didn’t get the response he wanted immediately. 🔹 Pursuing honors boundaries. He doesn’t pressure her for attention, affection, or commitment. He respects her “no” just as much as he respects her “yes.” 🔹 Pursuing gives her the freedom to choose. He can say, “I want you,” without saying, “I need you to validate me.” 🔹 Pursuing looks at character, not just beauty. A godly man is not simply asking, “Am I attracted to her?” He should also be asking, “Can we build something together that honors God?” 🔹 Pursuing allows reciprocity. He shouldn’t be doing 100% of the pursuing while she gives 0% of the interest. Healthy relationships require two people who are willing to choose each other. 🔹 Pursuing knows when to step back. If she clearly communicates that she isn’t interested, a godly man can accept that without trying to manipulate, pressure, or convince her. A healthy relationship isn’t built on one person desperately trying to win the other. It’s built when two people freely choose each other and are willing to pursue God, purpose, love, and growth together. So men, don’t chase her for her attention. Pursue her with intention. Honor her with respect. Give her the freedom to choose. The goal isn’t: “How hard can I chase her and get her?” The better question is: “Can we mutually pursue God, purpose, and each other?” Drop ❤️if this resonates with you by @desmondbooker5
Dear Future Wife... Can't wait to do life with you❤️ by @desmondbooker5
A man sets the tone of the relationship... Do you agree or disagree? Queens Don't Settle Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach ❤️I partner with Successful Queens ready to start Successfully Dating and seeing Success in their lives❤️ by @desmondbooker5
God will turn your struggles into triumph Have a great Sunday! Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach by @desmondbooker5
Stop holding yourself back from the love you want Make a decision that you desire to be in a relationship, then allow yourself to be in a relationship. Don't focus on being hurt, but focus on being loved. Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach 🌹Please Like and Follow as I share reels and posts with dating tips, inspiration & success strategies for your life and love life. Please Share if this speaks to you🌹 ❤️I partner with Successful Queens ready to start Successfully Dating and seeing Success in their lives❤️ Let's go from Single to Successfully Dating without Settling, live your best life. by @desmondbooker5
Keep moving forward... Make this week a great week! Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach 🌹Please Like and Follow as I share reels and posts with dating tips, inspiration & success strategies for your life and love life. Please Share if this speaks to you🌹 ❤️I partner with Successful Queens ready to start Successfully Dating and seeing Success in their lives❤️ Let's go from Single to Successfully Dating without Settling, live your best life. by @desmondbooker5
Everything is working out for my Good I trust and believe that! Have a blessed Sunday and stay encouraged Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach by @desmondbooker5
God's best for you is coming Get ready for God's best that's coming into your life. You have to start preparing and being ready for when he shows up. It happens because you believe and not doubt it will happen, no more wavering only believing it will happen. Queens Don't Settle Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach 🌹Please Like and Follow as I share reels and posts with dating tips, inspiration & success strategies for your life and love life. Please Share if this speaks to you🌹 ❤️I partner with Successful Queens ready to start Successfully Dating and seeing Success in their lives❤️ Let's go from Single to Successfully Dating without Settling, live your best life. by @desmondbooker5
Keep going knowing it will all work out It is not easy to keep going, when it continues to seem like nothing is working or going well, but remember it is a process that will lead to your desires being fulfilled. As you press forward, rest and evaluate if you are working on the right plan or if you need to adjust. Great things are waiting for you at the finish line, if you don't give up! Queens Don't Settle Much 💕 Desmond, your favorite Christian Dating, Relationship and Success Coach 🌹Please Like and Follow as I share reels and posts with dating tips, inspiration & success strategies for your life and love life. Please Share if this speaks to you🌹 ❤️I partner with Successful Queens ready to start Successfully Dating and seeing Success in their lives❤️ Let's go from Single to Successfully Dating without Settling, live your best life. by @desmondbooker5

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