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RED FLAG WARNING?! Keep your eyes peeled for these sorts of people!

Telling the difference between who's a good person and who's not is very difficult... But here's a few tells. Especially for those in the cosplay community. Of course, these red flags can apply elsewhere as well.

Do remember, you can cut a person from your life at any time. They don't need an explanation or anything. Sometimes it may be difficult, especially when they may have been a different person from the beginning, but you may also be a different person compared to the past. If your friend isn't looking for your well-being, they may not have really been your friend in the first place.

Any relationship---whether friendship, business, etc---is supposed to be a two-way street. And, speaking as someone that's been in abusive friendships in the past, I wish I had known these sooner than focusing on being not-lonely...⁡
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⁡⁡*cross-posted from my cosplay account @stumbling.daruma