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Posted On: April 23rd 2025, 11:15 pm
So many of us just wanted to be picked…
By a parent.
By a partner.
By somebody.

And maybe when we weren’t, we thought something was wrong with us.

10 years of healing later, I have a great relationship with my dad. But back then? I didn’t. And that version of me was just trying to survive. I didn’t know the rules. I didn’t know how to protect my heart. I just knew I wanted to be chosen.

Healing taught me….I had to choose myself first. And it’s my job to give younger me grace for not knowing what she didn’t know. That’s where this new music comes from…going from perfection to simply enjoying the process and choosing myself.

My journey continues…♥️

#selflovejourney #trustyourself #knowyourworth #stayfocused #datingadvice #healingjourney #relationshipgoals #confidence #encouragement
Comments (34)
samuel263107 19 hours ago

samuel263107

I LOVE THAT LINE--"YOU DON'T HAVE TO CHOOSE ME, I KNOW U'M BLESSED"! THAT'S STRONG BABY! AND WHEN I FIRST SAW YOU--I THOUGHT YOUR BEAUTY & PRESENCE & HONESTY & MAGIC WERE SO EXCEPTIONAL! I HAD NO--ZERO--PROBLEM PICKING YOU! YOU WERE BORN A QUEEN ANHAYLA! YOU JUST HAVE TO GET USED TO THAT! I'M A KING--AND I KNOW A QUEEN WHEN I EXPERIENCE HER! LIKE I KNOW BEYONCE IS A QUEEN! YOU'RE ON THAT SAME LEVEL BABY! NO, YOU DON'T HAVE HER BANK ACCOUNT! BUT SHE SEES YOU JUST AS "RICH" AS HER! WHY? BECAUSE SHE'S A QUEEN AND SHE KNOWS YOUR WORTH! BEAUTY AND YES--THE "CHACHING"! IF "WEALTH" IS IN YOU THEN YOU HAVE WEALTH! IT WILL ONE DAY HIT YOUR BANK ACCOUNT TOO! AND YOUR CREDIT SCORE! WHEN? WHEN GOD IS READY! BUT THE MONEY IS ALREADY IN YOU! Y-E-A-H! I LOVE YOU ANHAYLA! I CAN'T WAIT FOR THE LONG NIGHTS SAYING SHIT I NEVER SAID BEFORE! GOOD NIGHT FOR NOW!

mandydreams1955 a year ago

mandydreams1955

Gotta Pick yourself. You are a phenomenal young woman. Keep walking in your purpose -- You are enough. More than enough!

leilanirosine a year ago

leilanirosine

Woohoo! Go Anhayla💛💛💕 This is beautiful and your voice is amazing!

samiligia 2 years ago

samiligia

That's so true! It went missing, bc now that u mentioned it... yep. It's really Hard to digest It.

shawn_alex90 2 years ago

shawn_alex90

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

onwuneme_writes 2 years ago

onwuneme_writes

Thank you for sharing this. I hope I repair the relationship with mine soon

angel_blessedx 2 years ago

angel_blessedx

Much love and strength goes out to you 😍 #powerful #powerlady Thank you for sharing this with us 😍 #agree 😍😍😍 feel this 💯 #facts #learninganddevelopment 😍

goodluck.vic 2 years ago

goodluck.vic

❤️❤️

afrisaurus 2 years ago

afrisaurus

Word 👌🏿👌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿. Blessedly inspirational

talytamachado 2 years ago

talytamachado

Yessss!

kawangavik 2 years ago

kawangavik

So inspiring

tebtech 2 years ago

tebtech

Most Grace🙏🏾, revelation of understanding that im blessed! Thats deep its a dailly struggle.🖤🥹

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