9 months agodjhb529
Just because you have authority or technology doesn't make you righteous. Your better off stealing illegal oil
9 months agogen.unreal
i stopped promising and just doing. I failed with the small gestures because i was too focused on doing "big things". coding Websites, learning how to draw her realistically and shit. but damn idk now
10 months agodriven.by.azrael
Saying they're going to do A, but end up doing X is exactly why trust is ruined
10 months agohaircuts_by_margarita_
Very much so, like I love you , i'll help you, I'll be there to help you, we can do that together later, i'll pay you back, all from one person. Run, thier actions and words different, run. The best one is its a busy store but you only get paid 13 a day for a 6 hour or 8 hour shift at work. Knowing good and well that gonna make you bread crumbs since one of you or bills could be over 100. Cause if you went to work 30 days, no days off and got paid 13 dollars a day ,and had a bill of 400 , it wouldn't even pay that bill and by the grace of God you would be alive if trying to pay that bill and still live.
10 months agoweaveyourspirit
This is the clarity people avoid because it removes the excuses. Consistency is the real apology, and accountability is the bare minimum.
a year agowknds._6
Or she stonewalls tf out of me, straight up refusal to address problems in our relationship. Then 10 mins later acts like it never happened and gets pissed at me for still being upset, saying I’m “dragging it out” and overreacting. What do I do? I feel cooked
a year agobarkingatthestars
What if I tell people to not expect me to get attached to them cause I'm enjoying our connection currently and don't know where it will lead? It's regarding friendships. I have my closest friends but I often get into talks with people, start spending my time by exchanging ideas, being playful, getting to know them, etc. as I'm a very friendly and encouraging person. Turns out they start idealizing me, admiring my mindset or energy and wishing to be really close. I say I'm enjoying the time with them, that I'm perhaps feeling more close to them but don't know if we'll turn out to be closer friends till more time passes, as I don't consider that a light word and need more time to get attached and figure if I can work on that connection and if I want that person to stay and be a bigger part of my life, considering I do not know their life style, principles, how I feel next to them over time, do I like myself with them, etc. They eventually feel disappointed cause they see me distancing, due to returning my energy to my closest people, family and, let's say, other friends I met, which I get, but I also find it natural to go back to your peace and comfort after a period of dedicating time to new experiences and connections. Then they turn paranoid, call me more frequently, check up on what I'm doing, who I'm texting, who I'm with, telling me I'm manipulating cause I'm playing hot and cold, all while I'm just dedicating time to myself and to other people I prioritize more. Then they tell me I'm a manipulator cause my actions don't match my words (I'm being caring towards them, but telling them I'm the type to take pauses and occasionally distance myself, all while trying to reassure them and refute their claims that something is wrong between us). This eventually leads to me getting exhausted having to explain myself, stressing, constantly minding my words, worrying and walking on eggshells
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