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Posted On: December 10th 2025, 05:29 pm
Breaking Up Every Time You Argue is a Trauma Response
#mentalhealth #selfimprovement #Healing
Comments (22)
nancyc88888 9 months ago

nancyc88888

I’m great at cutting my losses and compartmentalizing, it allows me to perform well in other areas of my life. However, this has deeply compromised the emotional safety of the people I love and likely compound existing abandonment trauma. It’s a horrible way to interact with someone you claim to love and all intended to avoid being vulnerable.

k53444l 9 months ago

k53444l

Call his bluff, pack his bags, never let man threaten to leave after a fight

lic_y07 9 months ago

lic_y07

I tried to have an honest conversation and he shut me out

missperlaza 9 months ago

missperlaza

Im learning how to communicate and I just realized that every time I argue with my bf I wanted to break up. Fortunately I’m in psychology and my therapist is helping me to understand and communicate better. Now I just don’t think we needs to break the relationship but have a conversation. After the conversation, we may feel guilty, tired or don’t know how to get back to him. Even in those months we choose each other again and find a way to get back together

samora.samuda 9 months ago

samora.samuda

This is so true…👏👏

mermaidlunastar 9 months ago

mermaidlunastar

He never understands me

elizabethsal1961 10 months ago

elizabethsal1961

Own your mistakes

jr.mariohernandez 10 months ago
brendaturnermorales 10 months ago
geno1952photos 10 months ago

geno1952photos

Or maybe he was just too busy for you. And maybe if you keep giving him chances he’ll be even more busy and after an exciting day with lots of other friends, he’ll come home and toss you a water bottle and say have a good night. You deserve better.

janettecosmeticartistry 10 months ago
sandysee4512 10 months ago

sandysee4512

We have been together 18 years. The hurt is from our own hands. This is why people give up. It hurts to much to figure it out

nicoleandjordy 10 months ago

nicoleandjordy

My ex literally just sent this to me. We were together three months. He treating me like crap. I went through his phone and finally found out why

ann.sarfowaa_1993 10 months ago

ann.sarfowaa_1993

It is not always possible to live for God and to live at peace with all men, But insofar as it is possible, we should strive to do so, We should never delight in conflict and controversy for its own sake but only engage in such when necessary and to defend the truth and live the truth, Christians should be characterized as people of peace who are willing to get along with others as long as that does not entail denying their God.

doubled711 10 months ago

doubled711

It’s hard at times to get him to have an honest conversation. But you are so completely correct 😌

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