Clear After Confusion

One confusing dynamic in unhealthy relationships is when the focus constantly shifts.

You try to talk about a behavior that hurt you.

But instead of addressing what happened, the conversation turns toward how you reacted.

Suddenly the issue isn’t the behavior anymore.

It’s your tone.
Your feelings.
Your reaction.

And over time, this shift can make someone feel like they’re always the problem, even when they were simply trying to communicate.

Recognizing these patterns can be the beginning of understanding what’s really happening.

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