Jolane_Mason

From the age 15–30…i gave away my power to men who didn’t value me…friends who were lowkey jealous…& environments that thrived on confusion instead of growth…

I shrunk myself to be accepted.
I ignored my intuition to keep the peace.
I overgave, overexplained, and overlooked red flags just to feel chosen.

But the truth is…every time I abandoned myself, I paid for it mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Now I see it clearly—
my power was never “taken”…I handed it over.

And now? I’m taking it back😈
With boundaries.
With discernment.
With self-respect that doesn’t negotiate for love.

This version of me doesn’t chase validation…
she embodies it😤

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