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Posted On: May 28th 2026, 10:59 am

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On a different state of mind 🙏🏾Global motion only.
Soft skin, long legs, and a little Colombia 🇨🇴🤭
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Give me a “soy boy” who respects women over an insecure man obsessed with controlling them any day.

These red pill guys love using graphs and pseudo psychology to explain why women supposedly date “soy boys” instead of “real men.”

That’s not masculinity.
That’s fear.

Real confidence doesn’t need control.

Real masculinity doesn’t feel threatened by a woman having rights, freedom, a voice, friends, joy or autonomy.

It’s honestly one of the saddest things to watch because underneath all the podcasts, charts and fake “logic” is usually the same thing:
fear of rejection
fear of inadequacy
fear of not feeling chosen.

And the irony is the men they mock as “soy boys” are often the ones actually capable of building emotionally safe, healthy relationships with women.

Deep down, a lot of red pill men crave an emotionally safe relationship too.
A relationship where they feel loved, chosen, understood and emotionally secure.

But many have been taught that vulnerability is weakness, softness is feminine, and control is masculinity.

So instead of building emotional safety, they mock the very men who know how to create it.

They call emotionally mature men “soy boys” because deep down, many of them were taught masculinity means suppressing emotion, controlling women and competing with other men for power.

But healthy masculinity does not fear softness. It does not fear emotionally intelligent men. And it definitely does not need a graph to explain why women feel safer around them.

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tamamo no mae!!! 🦊💕💕 I haven’t cosplayed 4fun in a while :’)

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