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Sean Ursani

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3 months ago

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✨ Holding Space for Trivia with Tracy ✨

Join us for our first ever Sapphic Trivia night for tacos, tequila, and pop culture chaos 🌮🍹

Join viral journalist, dubbed the “Queen of Queer Media,” Tracy E. Gilchrist for the inaugural Holding Space for Trivia at Untamed Spirits on Tuesday, July 7th at 7PM! All categories are hand-crafted for a sapphic audience.

Bring your team (or find one there!) and test your knowledge across:
🔥 Hot TV shows
👭Celebrity Couples
🎬 Movies
🎤Music Icons
🫦The L Word
⚽️ Sports

$10 per team gets you in on the fun… with fabulous prizes and multiple chances to win!

Get ready to play, sip, snack, and show off what you got! 😏

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Posted On: July 6th 2026, 09:58 pm

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✨ Holding Space for Trivia with Tracy ✨

Join us for our first ever Sapphic Trivia night for tacos, tequila, and pop culture chaos 🌮🍹

Join viral journalist, dubbed the “Queen of Queer Media,” Tracy E. Gilchrist for the inaugural Holding Space for Trivia at Untamed Spirits on Tuesday, July 7th at 7PM! All categories are hand-crafted for a sapphic audience.

Bring your team (or find one there!) and test your knowledge across:
🔥 Hot TV shows
👭Celebrity Couples
🎬 Movies
🎤Music Icons
🫦The L Word
⚽️ Sports

$10 per team gets you in on the fun… with fabulous prizes and multiple chances to win!

Get ready to play, sip, snack, and show off what you got! 😏

Comments (5)

3 months ago

binaonfilm

omg please bring her back im so sad i just saw this

3 months ago

rewritethebiline

This sounds incredibly fun!

About last night with @hellomag 😀❤️

Absolutely privileged to have stayed next door to the Hello party in the @mo_mayfair Mandarin Oriental

Oh my, it is glorious and I mean glorious …..

Didn’t make it to the rooftop bar tho … might be an excuse to go back ?? 😀🥳

Dress @mrselfportrait
HMU @marcosgmakeup

Psychologist Kurt Lewin understood something we often forget. He expressed human behavior through a simple equation: B = f(P, E)

In simple terms, behavior is a function of the person and their environment.

But we tend to focus heavily on the “person” part. For example, if you’re anxious, you think you need to become calmer. If you’re insecure, you think you need to build confidence. If you’re exhausted, you think you need to develop better habits. If you’re struggling, you think you need to work on yourself.

And more often than not, you should at least self-reflect. But Lewin’s theory reminds us to look at the other half of the equation, because your environment also shapes what arises within you.

Think about a flower that keeps wilting. You could spend months studying the flower, adjusting its leaves, blaming its weakness, or wondering why it isn’t flourishing. But place the same flower somewhere with enough sunlight, water, and healthy soil, and something changes.

The flower was never separate from the conditions surrounding it, and neither are you. You might think you need to become less sensitive when you’re surrounded by people who constantly disrespect you, or to work on your confidence while staying in a workplace that repeatedly diminishes you. You might learn emotional regulation while remaining in a relationship that keeps your nervous system in a state of tension.

If you’re reading this, you know personal growth matters. But so does recognizing when your environment keeps producing the version of you you’re trying to heal.

So notice who you become in different spaces. Around some people you might be guarded, while around others, you might soften. Some environments might make you question yourself, while others seem to return you to yourself. How safe you feel in spaces has an impact, and that information matters.

Sometimes healing means developing stronger inner resources so the outside world has less control over you. And sometimes it means changing the outside world you keep asking yourself to endure.

You don’t always need to become better at surviving the environment. Sometimes you need to leave it completely.

#VexKing #quotes #letgo

Sean Ursani

@theonebabu

binaonfilm

rewritethebiline

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