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Photo by Le Gateau Chocolat on July 27, 2026.
Photo by Le Gateau Chocolat on July 27, 2026.
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Posted On: July 27th 2026, 07:19 am
People HATE to see a unicorn.

The intersection of race and invisible disabilities IS REAL.

“Why are you in the medical/disability queue”
Presents disability pass
“Because I have a disability”
“Then you should wear it”
“Or you could just do your job and check my passport after I’ve demonstrated why I’m in this queue”
“Don’t give me attitude”
“Don’t waste my time. Let’s keep this moving”

Sabi, duty manager, comes over and successfully diffuses the situation.

“Can we talk calmly in the corner”
“Sure. This is a teachable moment”
“You see how I’m not raising my voice?”
“You see how he raised his?”
“Our staff are working under enormous pressure”
“It’s 655. Planes are allowed to land, at Heathrow from 6am. Some of us have been on a 24 hr flights”
For transparency and honesty, mine was 7 BUT 2 weeks ago, it was 36 from New Zealand
“I understand. It would just help our staff if you wore the lanyard”
“Sure. But as soon as he asked, I demonstrated my disability- why was there need for any comeback including him saying to you “he’s got an attitude.” - his language was not coded enough.”
“I understand.”
“What’s your name?”
“I’m the duty manager.”
“That’s clear. I’d like to say thank you.
“I’m sabi”
“I’m George. Thank you, Sabi”

I’m really not sorry that @heathrow_airport’s training’s failed in not expanding your perception or invited you to abandon stereotype because the facts are people with disabilities can also look like this AND your use of the adjective “attitude” is MUCH louder than you think. It’s screaming.

Thank you, Sabi. Have a word. Please.

Exhausting. Exhausted

The disability - ‘medical fatigue’, exhaustion, from heart disease, has entered the chat.

#disability #london #home #black #fashion
Comments (7)
niegelsmith 3 months ago
poshtater 3 months ago

poshtater

Well, that was vile. I’m so sorry you were treated badly by whoever preceded Sabi. I wish that people without disabilities could experience what we experience for a week *minimum* before going into public facing jobs. Then they might understand that we don’t necessarily want to wear a label permanently, thanks, we’d just like to be able to access services in a way that actually works for our disabilities or mobility issues. And if that means presenting proof on request, that’s perfectly fine. (Wheelchair user since 2023 - it’s been… interesting! Airport staff: “Can she get out of the chair?” Me: “How about asking me” and I can SEE them deciding I’m “difficult” 🙄)

elbelbumble 3 months ago

elbelbumble

I used to get this all the time before I got my stick then wheelchair, always having to 'prove' my disability, now I get hideously talked down to just because I'm sitting and rolling, no bloody wins, the exceptions leap out when they should be the norm, big hugs ❤️

erikhalley 3 months ago

erikhalley

😍😍😍

leulah74 3 months ago

leulah74

On the plus side your outfit is very chic! I’m sorry you had such an exhausting landing!

annabsexton 3 months ago

annabsexton

1st of just s*** [left you a VN about this] and your outfit its serving mint choc chip ice cream, Italian holidays, Pucci realness and its totally 10/10 a feast for my eyes and 💚💚💚💚

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