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Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms

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Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of one or more people, makeup, poster, magazine and text that says 'ALIGN TERIVE HELP MOMS BREAK FREE FROM SURVIVAL MODE, DITCH THE MOM GUILT. AND BUILD A LIFE SHE'S ACTUALLY OBSESSED WITH IN 90 DAYS, USING THE 20/80 METHOD. NOT BY BURNING DOWN THE LIFE YOU'VE ALREADY BUILT. BY FINALLY BECOMING YOURSELF INSIDEIT. IT. SANARAN'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a meme of text that says 'SWIPE SWIPETOSEEWIATSPOSSITBIE To SEE WHIAT'S POSSIBLE YOU'VE BEEN "JUST SURVIING" LONG ENOUGH.. SNAPPING AT YOUR KIDS OVER SPILLED MILK, THEN CRYING ABOUT IT IN THE SHOWER AN HOUR LATER. FEELING GUILTY SPENDING $40 ON YOURSELF BUT DROPPING $200 ON YOUR KIDS WITHOUT BLINKING. A FLICKER OF THAT OLD SPARK, AN IDEA YOU ACTUALLY WANT SHELVED FIVE MINUTES LATER, TELLING YOURSELF "I'LL START WHEN THINGS CALM DOWN." THINGS NEVER CALM DOWN. STOP WAITING FOR THEM tO. START BUILDING THE LIFE ANYWAY.'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of poster, magazine and text that says 'BEFORE YOU KNOW IT... ··· KIDS ARE OFF TO COLLEGE AND YOU'VE LOST YOURSELF SOMEWHERE ALONG THE THEWAY. WAY. A LIFE BUILT ON EVERYONE ELSE'S AND RESPONSIBILITIES. RUNNING ON AUTOPILOT. OVERWHELMED BEFORE YOUR FEET HIT THE FLOOR. A 'SEASON OF LIFE' BECOMES A DECADE YOU DISAPPEARED INTO. HERE'S SHIFT THAT CHANGES EVERYTHING'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of text that says 'HERE'S THE SHIFT THAT CHANGES EVERYTHING. IT'S NOT MORE WILLPOWER. NOT MORE HUSTLE. NOT ONE MORE THING ON YOUR PLATE. IT'S A METHOD BUILT ON 5 PILLARS, CREATED TO FIT INTO JUST 20 INTENTIONAL MINUTES A DAY. BECAUSE WE ALL KNOW HOW BUSY MOMS ACTUALLY ARE SEE HOW IT ACTUALLY WORKS'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of blueprint, poster and text that says 'THE 20/8o METHOD IS BUILT ONA5 PILLAR FRAMEWORK IF FYOU SKIP THE FOUNDATION, YOU KEEP TALKING ABOUT HE LIFE YOU WANT INSTEAD OF BUILDING IT. REGULATE 綠 REWIRE CREATE RECOGNIZE RECONNECT SWIPE TO SEE THE SHIFT, PILLAR BY PILLAR'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be an image of card, poster, magazine and text that says 'ENERGETIC UPGRADE FROM: WIRED BUT EXHAUSTED, SNAPPING OVER NOTHING, RUNNING ON FUMES TO: A NERVOUS SYSTEM THAT FINALLY FEELS SAFE ENOUGH TO SLOW DOWN, CALMER BODY, REAL SLEEP, LESS REACTIVE WITHIN WEEKS REGULATE BREAKING BARRIERS FROM: SELF-SABOTAGE AND MOM GUILT RUNNING THE SHOW WITHOUT YOU EVEN CLOCKING AS A PATTERN TO: FINALLY SEEING THE SPECIFIC PATTERN BEHIND -WHAT IS, WHERE CAME FROM, AND HOW TO ACTUALLY SHIFT IT RECOGNIZE MINDSET MAKEOVER FROM: DOUBTING YOURSELF BEFORE YOU EVEN START, SECOND-GUESSING EVERY INSTINCT TO: SELF-TRUST AND INTUITION STRONG ENOUGH to ACTUALLY BELIEVE THE THING IS POSSIBLE FOR YOU REWIRE'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of one or more people, makeup, magazine, card, poster, road and text that says 'FINDING YOUR PURPOSE FROM: "MOM" AS YOUR ENTIRE IDENTITY, NO REAL ANSWER FOR WHO YOU ARE OUTSIDE OF TO: PURPOSE AND PASSION OUTSIDE OF MOTHERHOOD WHAT ACTUALLY LIGHTS YOU UP, AND THE FIRST REAL CONCRETE STEP YOU TAKE TOWARD IT RECONNECT YOUR ROADMAP To ACTION FROM: TALKING THE LIFE YOU WANT, INDEFINITELY THAT GOAL THAT'S BEEN SITTING ON YOUR VISION BOARD FOR YEARS TO: SOMETHING THAT EXISTS THAT DIDN'T BEFORE. THE APPLICATION SENT. FIRST CLIENT. THE BOUNDARY ACTUALLY SET. THE VACATION BOOKED, NOT JUST COLLECTING DUST AS A PHOTO ON YOUR VISION BOARD. PROOF-OF-WORK NO ONE CAN CREATE'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of magazine, poster, card and text.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of one or more people, makeup, magazine and text that says '90 DAYS FROM NOW. PICTURE IT... YOU DON'T SNAP OVER HE SMALL THINGS. YOU SPEND THE $40 ON YOURSELF WITHOUT THE GUILT SPIRAL AFTER. THE GOAL THAT'S BEEN SITTING FOR YEARS, YOU'VE ACTUALLY STARTED IT. THE APPLICATION'S IN. HE CLIENT'S SIGNED. THE TRIP'S BOOKED. YOUR FAMILY'S NOTICING. HAPPIER MORE CONFIDENT. MORE YOU. YOU'RE NOT TWAITING FOR THINGSTO to CALM DOWN. YOU NEVER NEEDED THEM TO. 90 DAYS AGO YOU YOUWERE SURVIVING. NOW YOU'RE BUILDING A LIFE YOU'RE ACTUALLY OBSESSED WITH.'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be a graphic of card, magazine, poster and text that says 'WHAT'S INSIDE ALIGN ៥ THRIVE HERE'S EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE INVESTING IN... VIDEO MODULES WORK THROUGH THE PILLARS ON YOUR TIME TRANSFORMATIONAL ACTIVITIES EXERCISES THAT ACTUALLY SHIFT THE PATTERN, NOT JUST EXPLAIN IT •GUIDED MEDITATIONS NERVOUS SYSTEM REGULATION, BUILT INTO YOUR WEEK GUIDED EFT TAPPING RELEASE THE NEGATIVE EMOTION, DON'T JUST TALK π MONTHLY 1:1 COACHING CALLS - -DIRECT ACCESS, DIRECT ACCOUNTABILITY •WEEKLY GROUP COACHING CALLS- MOMENTUM AND SUPPORT, YOU'RE NOT DOING THIS SOLO COMMUNITY OF MOMS WALKING THIS WITH -WOMEN WHO GET T, WITHOUT YOU HAVING to EXPLAIN nT 24/5 ACCESS to ME THROUGH SLACK SUPPORT BETWEEN CALLS, MONDAY-FRIDAY'.

Photo by Nicki Stobbs | Transformation + Identity Coach for Moms on September 08, 2026. May be an image of one or more people, people standing, card, magazine and text.

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Posted On: September 8th 2026, 11:00 am

What if we stopped using “mom” as an excuse to put our dreams on hold, and actually made it happen?

What if we stopped feeling guilty for doing something for ourselves?

What if our kids and husbands got to see a better version of us? Happier. More confident. More present.

What if change only took 20 intentional minutes a day? Not another hour you don’t have. Just 20, built to fit the life you’re already living 🌿

My life has been rebuilt from scratch more than once. Not because I chose to. Because I had to. You don’t have to burn yours to the ground to rebuild it 🔥

The 20/80 Method is how I did it, and how you can too. 20 minutes visible, 80% of the real work happening underneath it ✨

Comment THRIVE and I’ll walk you through exactly how it works for you 🔥

#lifecoachforwomen #lifecoachformoms #personaltransformation #momlife #createyourdreamlife

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