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Photo by Zlattie | Online Coach on September 08, 2026. May be an image of one or more people, biceps, people bodybuilding, magazine and text that says 'BUT THAT SAME PART OF MΕ? IT'S BLOODY RELENTLESS. WHEN I DECIDE I WANT SOMETHING, I WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN.'.
Photo by Zlattie | Online Coach on September 08, 2026. May be an image of one or more people, biceps, people bodybuilding and text that says 'SO MAYBE I DIDN'T NEED to TO GET GET RID OF OFIT, IT, MAYBE| NEEDED to LEARN WHERE TO POINT IT.'.
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Posted On: September 8th 2026, 06:01 pm
I spent a long time thinking my all-or-nothing nature was something I needed to “fix”.

And in some situations, it absolutely needed challenging. Because when that mindset is pointed in the wrong direction, it can be destructive as fuck.

But somewhere along the way I realised the goal was never to become a completely different person.

That same intensity that can make me spiral is the intensity that has carried me through preps, difficult seasons, setbacks and plenty of moments where quitting would’ve been easier.

I didn’t need less fire.
I needed to become better at deciding what deserved it.

Maybe there are parts of you you’ve spent years labelling as “too much”, “difficult” or a flaw.

I’m not saying every flaw is secretly a superpower.

But maybe before trying to get rid of it, ask yourself:

Could I learn to use this differently?

Same fire. Better fucking aim.
Comments (4)
marija.cosiic a month ago

marija.cosiic

This one hit because I've always seen my all or nothing side as something to fix, never thought about aiming it better instead🫠 Sent u a Dm

maybe_oneday_sometime 2 months ago

maybe_oneday_sometime

Love this Zlattie very wise words

riseandgri 2 months ago

riseandgri

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥Fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

olivemxsn 2 months ago

olivemxsn

🔥🔥🔥

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