Raagavi Thavachelvan

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.

I don’t actually think I’m lost.

I think I’m just… somewhere in between.

Between the person I was, the person everyone got used to me being, and the person I’m slowly becoming.

And honestly, it’s confusing sometimes.

Because I’m realizing how much of me was shaped around keeping people happy, doing what was expected, not being “too much”, not making the wrong choice.

So now when someone asks me what I want, sometimes I genuinely don’t know.

I’m still learning the difference between what I want and what I’ve just learned to want.

I’m still learning to trust my own decisions.
To stop looking outside of myself for permission.
To let myself change without feeling guilty about it.

I don’t have some big answer yet.

I’m just trying to get a little closer to myself.

And maybe that’s enough for now.

Maybe I don’t need to have myself figured out.

Maybe I just need to keep meeting her. 🤍

#mindset #tamil #healing