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Posted On: September 18th 2026, 08:52 pm
@rav.arora DEBATES (his good friend) @bret.weinstein on short-term romantic experiences. He presents the case from a woman’s perspective: what if a 27-year-old single woman is in Spain on a business trip and meets some dashing man at a bar she feels compelled to hook up with?

Bret argues this could be incredibly damaging to the woman’s relationship with her future husband where she may attempt to revive memories from her past sexual partners.

Bret & Rav surprisingly differ on this question where Bret takes the more conservative position that sexual activity has deep, long-lasting detrimental effects to a person’s life whereas Rav sees this in a more harmless, ephemeral light that can have few negative effects when done on the occasion just like drinking wine or staying up late.

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Comments (20)
rushjamison a month ago

rushjamison

Let’s just be blunt. Rav’s penis is doing all his talking.

mystifyy a month ago

mystifyy

Women should not be living their lives and making choices for some someday, maybe provider man that is not likely to show up. Most men aren't providers or even great equitable partners. Live for yourselves women and always choose yourself first.

theresa.pasquale.9 a month ago

theresa.pasquale.9

You sound like a Catholic theologian! Which is great!

bbdawolfy a month ago

bbdawolfy

When you live long enough to gain actual wisdom and learn what real love is, that casual hookup becomes an waste of time and emotion. it's like trying to live on popcorn.

acs412_ a month ago

acs412_

👏👏👏Bret!👏👏👏👏

killastilla21 a month ago

killastilla21

Men want a women whos a virgin because women will keep all the men they have ever been with in a spank bank in their brain. lol

raniergurl_04 a month ago

raniergurl_04

Rav doesn’t value women if he thinks this isn’t damaging to all involved.

evaviamusic a month ago

evaviamusic

Neuroscientifically, there is no such thing as "no strings attached" sex. Even just HOLDING HANDS causes a neurochemical reaction (that's why I won't even hold hands with someone I'm not seriously dating -- it's just GROSS to me)... not to mention what happens in your brain during sex. The very sad thing aboutl hookup culture is that fewer than 33% of women who participate actually enjoy it... That's because there's a PROFOUND difference between fucking and making love. There is a profound difference between raunchy and erotic. There's a profound difference between "sexy" (what women look like, sounds like, perform sex like) and sexuality (what you actually like sexually).

buffaloquick a month ago

buffaloquick

Bret is such a good Christian without being one 😂 love this guy, love heather too. Doing the Lord's work ❤️🙌

real_tammybogart a month ago

real_tammybogart

I've never had a sexual encounter with a man in my 64 years that was a "thrilling experience" he's either delusional or that's wishful thinking on his part

evergreen_dazed a month ago

evergreen_dazed

Hookup culture is corrosive to people and society.

burtflaxton a month ago

burtflaxton

This is the most cuckcoded fantasy…

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