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Posted On: September 23rd 2026, 05:55 pm

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Where are you? Can you hear me?

Once a month We walk. We laugh. We catch up. We make memories. And of course…. We end with good food & even better company🫶🏾

Because Miles Together Walk isn’t just about the miles—
It’s about the moments in between. 💚

Brooklyn girlies, come walk with us! 👟✨
☕️: @anikiiscafelounge_
📸: @elevatebold

#MilesTogetherWalk #GirlsWhoWalk #WomensWalkingclub #mentalhealthawareness #BrooklynGirls

Comments (14)

anikiiscafelounge_

22 days ago

anikiiscafelounge_

🫶🏽

bridevorr

22 days ago

bridevorr

When’s the next one?

trinilovely

22 days ago

trinilovely

Im trying register but I dont see the dates

ocky1

23 days ago

ocky1

🔥🔥

iwon.project

24 days ago

iwon.project

Yassss 👏🏾👏🏾

bysarahstephania

24 days ago

bysarahstephania

🙌🏾🔥🔥

iclaimitorg

24 days ago

iclaimitorg

🔥🔥

octavewellness

24 days ago

octavewellness

What a way to end Summer’26 ❤️

xo.hon3y_

24 days ago

xo.hon3y_

❤️❤️

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Lesson 6 💌: You don’t have to change who you are or how you look to be taken seriously.

Looking back, I don’t think it was the complaint itself that affected me most. It was what I took away from it.

That perhaps if I dressed a little differently, wore less makeup, made less effort with my appearance, blended in a little more… people might take me more seriously.

And I think we have all been there…

Changed something about ourselves, not because we wanted to, but because we worried about how we might be perceived.

Of course, there are professional standards, dress codes and safety considerations. I’ve spent my career in medicine, and I understand their importance.

But there’s a difference between dressing appropriately for your job and feeling you have to dull your personality to be respected in it.

At the time, I was a young medical student. I didn’t question it. I just put on scrubs and got on with my day.

And perhaps that’s the bit I’d do differently now. Not necessarily the clothes, but the assumption that someone else’s judgement of my appearance must mean there was something wrong with it.

As I raise my daughters, I want them to understand that feedback is important, but not every opinion requires them to change.

You can be feminine, enjoy fashion, love makeup, wear pink shoes AND be intelligent, capable and professional.

One doesn’t cancel out the other.

And I wish my younger self had understood that a little sooner.

Have you ever changed how you look or dress because you worried you wouldn’t be taken seriously?

We are SO ready for this 🔥🎬

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