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Posted On: October 23rd 2026, 09:46 pm
1 is gonna get me in trouble 😬

3 things that make you look desperate as a musician:
3. Begging for tips on the mic
2. Messaging venues nonstop
1. Playing for free

And yes, I played for free for years. Was it paying my dues, or was it hurting the scene? Tell me where you land 👇

Send this to the bandmate who reminds everyone to tip every three songs.

#livemusic #gigging #workingmusician #coverband #musicianlife
Comments (13)
kevinvazquezmusic 11 days ago

kevinvazquezmusic

Scarcity mentality

william_the_real_wichman 12 days ago

william_the_real_wichman

We have only been at it a year and there is a place we play for “free” but ppl that attend know they are going for music and there is a good tipping atmosphere there. We usually make more there than other places. At some point we are going to hit a time where we will refuse gigs based on pay.

thecoyoteslim 12 days ago

thecoyoteslim

I agree, but I think most people don't agree with number 2. I was told "persistence is politeness." And sometimes it does pay off to keep after something. But also since I personally hate being bugged I haven't tended to pursue things more than a few times (at least back when I was trying to get into venues, especially in other states or areas). If I don't get an email back I just wrote off that whole state or whatever. People told me I should just keep trying but it never felt like it was worth the effort.

tekniamusic 12 days ago

tekniamusic

Open mics is the freebies, every other show should be paid

jasonhatchmusic 12 days ago

jasonhatchmusic

The more I watch your videos there is more things I disagree with. I do agree with a lot of things but it feels like you’re just baiting at times. A gentle reminder to tip the band is very helpful because people genuinely forget they should if they are really enjoying it. Number three for sure. Don’t do that please. Driving down the value of all live music in your region.

casaremon 12 days ago

casaremon

Wearing a hat that covers your ears. Brilliant idea

ewa_n666 12 days ago

ewa_n666

Playing free shows is definitely good for exposure but probably not if you are on a more professional basis but if you are a band just starting out (like me) I reckon it’s probably not a bad idea just for people to notice you a bit

kylecoketrocolla 12 days ago

kylecoketrocolla

Saying yes to every single gig whether you are good for it or it is good for you. Sometimes you gotta say nah thats not really what we do.

tonybowenmusic 12 days ago

tonybowenmusic

2. Unless you have a quiet month and the venue thinks you are too busy to play for them so it does no harm to remind them that you still love playing there.

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