Lisa/Solo Dating&Peace

Before you look at this “unbothered” lifestyle and think it was handed to me, I need to tell you how I actually got to this first place.

My peace was hard earned.

After my husband passed away, loneliness led me to dating apps just four months later.

I found someone toxic who took the deep insecurities I shared with him, about aging naturally in my 40s and my body changing, and used them as weapons to make me feel small.

I mistakenly thought that shrinking myself and keeping the peace would make him treat me better.

It didn’t. It only taught him how much disrespect I would tolerate.

I had to grieve all over again, rebuild my self confidence from scratch, and do the heavy internal work.

Healing didn’t teach me how to play the dating game better; it taught me to walk off the board entirely.

Whether your kids are grown, you don’t have kids, or you are navigating a massive life transition alone, your season doesn’t have to be lonely.

It can be peaceful, luxurious, and entirely on your own terms.

If you are ready to stop settling and learn to live beautifully and unbothered, hit follow.

Let’s build this community and take up space together.

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