Michael Autore

One year ago today, I found a hard growth in my groin. Just days later, I was diagnosed with cancer.

The last 12 months have been full of challenges, heartache, and chemotherapy, along with physical and hormonal changes. There have been constant surprises, scans, and difficult decisions, all of which have weighed heavily on my body and mind.

Some of the effects of treatment have developed into long-term complications, while others have brought changes that I may have to live with permanently. One thing I’ve come to accept is that life will never be exactly as it was before I found that tumor.

But there have also been so many blessings along the way.

I’ve shared beautiful moments with family, had conversations I never imagined having, and grown closer to my wife. I’ve connected with more people than I can count, leaned on strangers for support, and received thoughtful messages from people around the world.

It’s been a difficult journey, but also one filled with more love and gratitude than I could have imagined.

And here we are, exactly one year later, in Los Angeles celebrating a friend’s wedding. Another beautiful moment that I appreciate so much more because of everything I’ve been through.

This past year has taught me that some days, you have control over your life, and other days, life has control over you. What matters is how you respond to the things you can’t control. I’ve had to learn when to ask for help, how to quiet the dialogue in my head, and how to keep showing up regardless of the circumstances.

Today, I’m grateful for my health, my heartbeat, and my mind.

Life is precious. Take care of yourself and the people around you. Continue to challenge yourself, get your hands dirty, and don’t take the ordinary moments for granted.

Life can punch you in the face (or the balls) at any moment, so you might as well build the strength to handle whatever comes your way.

Stay Thick 💜