I think one of the hardest parts of choosing yourself is accepting that it may not always make everyone happy.
We can care deeply about the people in our lives and still have limits. We can say no, change our minds, create distance, or choose what feels right for us without making those choices wrong.
Disappointing someone doesn’t automatically mean you’ve hurt them. And keeping everyone comfortable shouldn’t come at the cost of constantly ignoring what you need.
There is a difference between being considerate of others and abandoning yourself to keep the peace.
You’re allowed to choose yourself, even when someone else doesn’t understand. 🤍