Posted On: October 10th 2026, 06:34 pm
John,
I know October is Pastor Appreciation Month, and I do appreciate you as that everyday- but to me you are so much more.
I know being a pastor isn’t always easy. There are long days, heavy burdens, and times when you pour so much of yourself into others that you don’t have much left. I know how tired you get. How hard you work. I see your heart, your love for the Lord, and the way you genuinely want to help people.
I know God called you to serve Him, and I’m proud of the man you are and the pastor you strive to be. I also know that behind every pastor is a person who carries a lot that others may never see. I pray you always remember that you don’t have to carry it all alone, and that it’s okay to rest, set boundaries, and take care of yourself, too.
Being a pastor’s wife isn’t always the easiest role, and our journey hasn’t been easy either, but through all the ups and downs, one thing has never changed: myloveforyou. I’m thankful I get to walk through this life with you, and I pray God continues to give you wisdom, strength, and peace as you serve Him.
More than anything, I hope you know that you are loved not just for what you do for the church, but for who you are. You are my husband, my partner, my best friend and my family, a great dad, and those things mean more to me than words can say.
To ALL the Pastors out there and your families: you are appreciated. Your hearts are appreciated. And you are loved!