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SOME THINGS ARE BORN OUT OF WHAT WE HAVE. OTHERS ARE BORN OUT OF WHAT WE WISHED WE HAD.
The Oasis Circle was born out of the latter. 🤍
Growing up, I didn’t have a sister. I lost my mum when I was a teenager, and somewhere along the way, I began learning many of the things that make up the experience of being a woman through my own lived experiences, observations, mistakes, and little discoveries.
There were things I wished someone would teach me. Conversations I wished I could have. Moments when I wished there was a woman a little further ahead of me who could say, “I’ve been here before, girl. Let me show you a thing or two.”
Someone to learn from. Someone to laugh with. Someone to call when life gets confusing. Someone whose presence reminds you that you don’t have to figure everything out by yourself.
And as I grew older, I realised you can be surrounded by people and still long for sisterhood.
You can be a woman who is doing her best, building a life, chasing her dreams, loving God, figuring out relationships, navigating womanhood, and becoming everything she hopes to be, yet still wish you had a village.
A place where you don’t have to pretend to have it all together. Where you can ask questions without feeling foolish, celebrate your little wins without feeling like you’re doing too much, share your struggles without feeling like a burden, and meet women who genuinely want to see you become more.
A place where friendship is more than exchanging pleasantries, where connection goes beyond following each other on social media, and where women don’t just gather for aesthetics but actually show up for one another.
I know what it feels like to have a gap. And for years, I’ve carried the desire to help bridge that gap for other women.
I don’t have every answer. I haven’t lived every experience. And despite my plans to live a very, very long life, I know there will always be more for me to learn.
But I also know that we don’t have to know everything to start something meaningful. Sometimes, we simply need to recognise a need, have the courage to respond to it, and remain willing to grow into the responsibility that comes with it.
That is the heart be
The Oasis Circle was born out of the latter. 🤍
Growing up, I didn’t have a sister. I lost my mum when I was a teenager, and somewhere along the way, I began learning many of the things that make up the experience of being a woman through my own lived experiences, observations, mistakes, and little discoveries.
There were things I wished someone would teach me. Conversations I wished I could have. Moments when I wished there was a woman a little further ahead of me who could say, “I’ve been here before, girl. Let me show you a thing or two.”
Someone to learn from. Someone to laugh with. Someone to call when life gets confusing. Someone whose presence reminds you that you don’t have to figure everything out by yourself.
And as I grew older, I realised you can be surrounded by people and still long for sisterhood.
You can be a woman who is doing her best, building a life, chasing her dreams, loving God, figuring out relationships, navigating womanhood, and becoming everything she hopes to be, yet still wish you had a village.
A place where you don’t have to pretend to have it all together. Where you can ask questions without feeling foolish, celebrate your little wins without feeling like you’re doing too much, share your struggles without feeling like a burden, and meet women who genuinely want to see you become more.
A place where friendship is more than exchanging pleasantries, where connection goes beyond following each other on social media, and where women don’t just gather for aesthetics but actually show up for one another.
I know what it feels like to have a gap. And for years, I’ve carried the desire to help bridge that gap for other women.
I don’t have every answer. I haven’t lived every experience. And despite my plans to live a very, very long life, I know there will always be more for me to learn.
But I also know that we don’t have to know everything to start something meaningful. Sometimes, we simply need to recognise a need, have the courage to respond to it, and remain willing to grow into the responsibility that comes with it.
That is the heart be
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