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We have been flooded with stories and comments since this episode with my friend @chrystalhurst released.

How do we grieve the life we don’t have?

It’s an important question and an important journey. I write about it a lot in Don’t Let That Hold You Back, so you can read more there. And we also wanted to hand you something that might guide you through this question and this unique pain. (So many comments have been, “I’ve never been able to say this before” or “I didn’t think I was allowed to grieve this”- we see you, sister. We really do.)

Comment GRIEF below if you’d like this short free resource we created today to help you on the journey of grieving the life you did not get.

It is a worthy journey. Bless you as you grieve.🤎

(You can hear this whole conversation on Episode 586 of @chrystalhurst’s The Sister Circle Podcast!)

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History remembers the samurai, but women fought to defend their communities too. ⚔️🇯🇵

Archaeological analysis of remains from several 16th-century Japanese battle sites, including Senbon Matsubara, found that many belonged to women. At some sites, researchers estimated that women may have accounted for 30–50% of those buried among the fallen. These findings came from bone analysis, not DNA testing.

Historical accounts also describe the onna-musha and onna-bugeisha—women from warrior families who trained with weapons such as the naginata and bow. They were prepared to defend their homes and communities when war came to their doorstep.

One remarkable figure was Nakano Takeko, who led a female fighting unit during the 1868 Boshin War and died in battle.

Their stories challenge the image of Japan’s warriors as exclusively male. These women were part of history all along; their stories deserve to be remembered.

History isn't being rewritten. It's being restored.

Follow @thefemalecurrency for more stories of women history overlooked.

#womeninhistory #japanesehistory

Someone said in my comments, “When white people say “I tried everything with my family,” we usually mean, “I tried everything that whiteness taught me.” We think what we grew up seeing is all there is. But there is a world of possibilities outside of what we were raised with, and we won’t know how to embody them until we make the effort to learn relational skills that are new to us.”

And I was like…you ate with that because while I don’t know everyone’s individual circumstance, I do know that whiteness as a construct will never be the measure of how well one has tried to be in relationship and build community.

If you want to spend 3 hours with me on October 24th learning how to relate differently, comment WORKSHOP.

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