2 days agocreativemind1683
Please stop trying to rationalise decision both sexes make in finding a partner or keeping a partner it's totally irrational you are just wasting your time.
4 days agohobbyjd4life
Here's a reality check for the women in the comments the "nice guy" nice dinner date one probably owns a home with a few hobbies and has a job that can support a family... that low effort bad boy probably lives at his parents home or rents with roommates because he doesn't have his life together and his priorities straight... now who would you pick to be the stable father figure role model for your kids if you were to get pregnant tomorrow 🤷♂️ nice date doesn't mean desperate
4 days agoboblcannell
“Nice dinner” should not be a consideration. Having fun and connecting is the buying sign. That is more likely to happen at a dive bar.
4 days agolucky.suit.9
It’s funny, but you’re both wrong! 1- he’s wrong, women will not settle. Not from the start and not even overtime, again, women initiate 70% of divorces, so not even overtime. 2- You’re also wrong. In real life it’s rarely black or white. It’s usually a mix. In the video you’re leaning too much towards “know your worth, don’t settle for someone that you love if he’s not enough”. As I said, in life, you will not find the perfect man or woman. That’s why the marriage rate is lowest than ever. Because influencers like you are trying to show other women “hey see, I’m a high value woman and I’ll not settle, you should too” and by not settling most will think “don’t go for someone less than what you want” not go for the same level as you are. Most women think “I’m cute and have a decent job, so I deserve someone who’s cute, taller than me, have higher status than me, has a better job/gets payed more, provider, etc…”. Women date up, and that’s the truth. You would rarely see woman with decent job go for a man working at McDonalds for example, but you would see a man with decent job go for a woman working at McDonalds. So “he settled”. Giving up a thing or two for someone you love is fine, you WILL have to give up things in ANY marriage. You’re promoting being materialistic. When you add your advice of not giving anything for love to the fact that women date up you will have the result of what we currently have: the lowest marriage rate in history. Giving up a thing or two for someone you love is better than pursuing the handsome 6+ft, 6+ figures, and when non of these the woman have. Unfortunately, you’re the worst type of influencers that are hyping up women. “You’re too good” “don’t settle down” “you’ll find the perfect match” then they realize they couldn’t find that person and they’re almost in their 40s.
4 days agosolvethenation
The nice guy will buy a dinner and the bad boy will do bare minimum. Who do you think women will go for? My experience is that women will select the bad boy first. When she is a single mother after the break up, then she will settle for the nice guy because it is expensive with children.
4 days agomekaylamonty1
Men alllllllways come back. When a woman truly walks away…. She GONE for good.
4 days agogray407
just bc we like you doesn’t mean we’ll keep liking you forever lol there’s always a deadline and someone better out there 😗
4 days agobaybeaddy
Men make the choice to marry. What woman you know gets to marry a man that doesn’t ask her or doesn’t want to marry her ? Women can’t get married unless a man wants her as his wife
4 days agobernardrouhi
It is never about love or worth; a woman would 100% leave the "love of her life" if the other guy were 3 times wealthier. I have never seen a woman leave her relationship because of another man's kindness.
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