an hour agoI always loved when women would complain that men need to make more of an effort with the first message, more than just “hi.” Meanwhile, on Bumble “hi” or “hey” was the only message I ever received from women.
2 hours agoI once asked a guy “if you could do anything you wanted to do, tomorrow for the day, what would you do” His reply “probably work lol” 😩🤷♀️
3 hours agoTwo questions and a statement would save so many boring app conversations because how was your day on repeat is not chemistry, it is a job interview.
4 hours agoThis is absolutely my method. I give three branches for connection then I'm out.
5 hours agoIsn't it better to use the apps to setup a date, and then there you can get to know each other? Maybe a call prior to meeting to feel out the vibes
6 hours agoIm so bad at small talk like this. I just say "I like your profile it looks like we have a lot in common!" Then ask them how their weeks going and if they wanna meet up this weekend lol
7 hours agoThe two questions and then a statement method was honestly such a game changer for me. Great advice
