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Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on October 19, 2026. May be a meme of text.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on October 19, 2026. May be an image of text.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on October 19, 2026. May be an image of text.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on October 19, 2026. May be an image of text.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on October 19, 2026. May be an image of card, poster and text.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on October 19, 2026. May be an image of standing, poster and text.
Photo by Monika Dalman Casting on October 19, 2026. May be a meme of poster and text.
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Posted On: October 20th 2026, 02:20 am
It kind of sucks to be an actor.

I mean, when you actually stop and think about what we expect actors to put up with, it's kind of ridiculous.

You spend money to apply for jobs you probably won't get, you're constantly being judged on things you have absolutely no control over, and you can give the best audition of your life and still not book because you look too much like someone who's already been cast.

And unlike most jobs, you don't usually get a rejection letter. You just never hear anything again.

I'm saying this as a casting director who makes a living being part of this very strange process.

I think sometimes we spend so much time talking about how lucky actors are to get to pursue their passion that we forget how much they're expected to tolerate just to have a chance at doing it.

And I don't have some big inspirational message about perseverance or trusting the process. I just think it's worth acknowledging that this is a pretty tough and occasionally absurd way to try to make a living.

❤️🙏
Comments (255)
aericad 2 days ago

aericad

And make no mistake about it, casting directors are the pimps

aaron_wan_actor_singer 2 days ago

aaron_wan_actor_singer

❤️Just experienced another round of this. Getting so close. What you say is so realistic and honest. Thanks for your empathy for us 🔥

mareann.nl 2 days ago
aericad 2 days ago

aericad

The MOST solitary job on the planet with the LOWEST ROI. Studios been wearing that mask for far too long. 💨

rohith_thakur88 4 days ago

rohith_thakur88

itna sach bhi nahi bolna tha 😂

egojentric 5 days ago

egojentric

It is so disheartening as a parent to watch my daughter continue to put her all into every audition and not get a callback, not even any positive or negative feedback. As a child actor, she relies on me for availability, lighting, hair and clothing, background and direction, including feeding off my energy. It’s been a tough standstill.

joshkstall 5 days ago

joshkstall

Exactly…how true this is. 🎭♥️🎭 It’s nice to know there are many other artists out there who understand the actor struggle. heard this from Matthew Lillard: (I’m paraphrasing here) “It’s like a relationship you give all your heart to and they say no. And you still keep giving and showing up anyway.”

raysumantoactor 7 days ago

raysumantoactor

That's even better. We need someone to hear us. We actors have a lot of resilience and self motivation.❤️🙌

sajelparekh 7 days ago

sajelparekh

❤️❤️

erinmarietyrrell 7 days ago

erinmarietyrrell

Thank you for seeing us!!!!!

julianne.christie 8 days ago

julianne.christie

Love this.. so true. 🧡

the_real_lisad 8 days ago

the_real_lisad

❤️🙌

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