Anna May

👋 bestie,

I need you to remember who you are and how much you bring to the people you love. You have a beautiful heart, and I know that when you care about someone, you try to see the best in them. But loving him shouldn’t mean overlooking what you need or accepting less than you deserve.

You are worthy of love that comes with effort, honesty, respect, and consistency. You deserve someone who wants to know how your day went, follows through on his promises, and makes room for you in his life—not someone you have to keep convincing to care.

When I say he has nothing for you, I’m not talking about money. I’m talking about whether he has care to give, effort to make, and a genuine willingness to build something with you. You can love someone deeply and still recognize that what they’re offering isn’t enough.

I know letting go can hurt, especially when you’re also letting go of what you hoped the relationship would become. I’m not asking you to pretend those hopes weren’t real or that your feelings can disappear overnight. I just don’t want you to spend so much time holding on to his potential that you forget to look at how he’s treating you now.

You don’t have to prove you’re worth choosing by waiting longer, giving more, or making your needs smaller. You’re allowed to want a relationship where love is returned, not just received.

Whatever you decide, I’m your friend—not your judge. I’ll listen when you need to talk, sit with you when it hurts, and remind you of who you are when you forget. But I’ll also be honest with you, because I love you too much to act like your unhappiness doesn’t matter.

You can care about him and still choose yourself. You can miss him and still know that walking away was right for you. And you don’t have to face that choice alone.
I love you, bestie. I want a love for you that gives you room to be fully yourself—not one that asks you to keep settling for less.

Always,
Your body sculpting bestie 🤍