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Lifestyle | Business | Financial Freedom
Founder, @sasllc_tax
2x Master's | Mom of 4 | Resilience
Building businesses, wealth & a life I love

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I am building a life I dont need a break from. Founder. Mom of 4, holding 2 MBAs. This page is where lifestyle, resilience, and financial freedom meet. If you are about growth, balance, and building something meaningful - you are in the right place 🥰 by @softsoftlife_me

Lately, I've been choosing presence over pressure.

Trusting the process.
Embracing the pace
Appreciating the journey

Still growing
Still becoming 🔥⭐️ by @softsoftlife_me

Soaking in this beauty 😍. Niagra Falls #Canada. Always on the move. Exploring#travell#Adventure by @softsoftlife_me

Another year round the sun 🌞 ✨️

This past year stretched me, built me, and reminded me of what really matters.

I'm stepping into this new chapter with clarity, gratitude, and deeper intention.

Still building.
Still growing.
Still becoming.

Cheers to life, purpose, and everything I between 🤍💛 by @softsoftlife_me

Stepping into this next chapter with clarity, confidence, and gratitude.

This one feels different.
Earned. Intentional. Personal.

Still building ✨🥰❤️ by @softsoftlife_me

In 2021, I decided to go back for my MBA…
and somehow, one degree turned into two — Finance and Accounting (Ta ni ó rán mí níṣẹ́ - 😂)

At the time, I was building my career, growing my business, and raising my children.
My youngest was 3, and I told myself it was time to lean back into my goals.

But life had another plan.

A few months into the program, I found out I was pregnant again —
with a 99% IUD.
A miracle I didn’t see coming.

I had to ask myself…
Do I pause, or do I keep going?

I chose to take it one day at a time.

People kept asking: "how do you juggle it all and make it look so easy"

And truthfully, it wasn’t always easy.
There were moments I felt the weight of it all.
Moments I questioned if I was doing too much.
Moments I thought about stopping.

But I kept showing up.

I learned to move at a pace I could carry.
I created a structure that allowed me to balance it all —
family, school, career, and business —
and still be present in each one.

Because for me, success was never about rushing.
It was about building a life I could actually live in - and enjoying every moment of the journey.

I completed this in 2025…
but I’m only sharing it now.

Because sometimes it takes a moment to pause,
reflect,
and truly honor what you’ve done.

This is more than a degree.
It’s a personal fulfillment.
A reflection of discipline, faith, resilience, and grace.

If you’re feeling stuck or pulled in different directions…
start anyway.
Take the step.
Move at your own pace.

Even if it takes longer, you will get there.

The only thing worse than moving slowly…
is not starting at all.

Still building 🤍

# Grateful for the people who supported me through it all —
my partner, my family, and my circle.

And to God- Almighty, who never left my side and reminded me what I was capable of…
thank you 🤍💛💖 by @softsoftlife_me

Making time for precious memories such as these is part of the process. You can never get enough of these moments. Keep building 🌺🌺🌺. Keep putting in the work 💪.

It's all worth it. 💓♥️💖 by @softsoftlife_me

It was so lovely to see my darling friend again 🥰
We did so much in a day it felt like it was more than 24 hours! Cheers to friendships that blossom over time. See you soon darling @softsoftlife_me

#cmipvt #travel #goodenergy #explorefrance #friendship by @softsoftlife_me

Building a life means making room for moments like this too💖

Work. Family. Presence.
All by design
🌟⭐️ by @softsoftlife_me

😍🌺 by @softsoftlife_me

I had amazing time in Troyes. When you connect with good people, great vibes, it makes it very enjoyable and memorable.

Thank you darling for being a great host @officialcmi. We had no dull moments, just love and positive energy 🔥🔥🔥

#liveyourlife❤️
#freedom
#positive energy by @softsoftlife_me

Motherhood sharpened my focus.
It didn't slow me down - It clarified my why.

Raising children taught me discipline, perspective, and purpose. Everything I built is rooted here.

Building a life, a legacy, and room for both.
Happy mother's Day. 💓 by @softsoftlife_me