A practical way to stop fawning
#fawning #fightorflight
Your nervous system literally just wants you to slow down đ«¶đŒ when we stop âstressingâ about the small things â brushing our teeth, doing the dishes, putting food/clothes away, etc⊠our body doesnât stay stuck in fight or flight. It takes a conscious effort, but the more we practice this behavior the more natural it becomes đâ€ïž
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If every minor hiccup feels like a five-alarm fire, it might be high stress reactivityânot a âbad personality.â â
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This piece breaks down whatâs happening in your brain and body when youâre snapping at everyone, plus the simple tools that help: gentle movement as a pressure valve, slower breathing that pulls you out of fight-or-flight, and tiny âcuriosity momentsâ that give your nervous system something nicer to focus on.â
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Read the full story for a practical âreactivity rescue planâ you can start in minutes, not months. Link in bio.â
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I share a lot on here about slowing down being a valuable tool to reduce stress & regulate your nervous system. So I also see comments all the time from people saying they donât have time to slow down and that it would make them less productive.
If you feel this way, I see you. I used to feel the same. This belief is almost always driven by (ironically) your sympathetic âfight or flightâ nervous system - the very same system that continues to stay active from you rushing đ„”
The truth is, rushing doesnât actually make you that much faster - but what it does do is make you more stressed, more likely to make mistakes, have accidents, and end up flustered.
So really consider - does slowing down *actually* make you less productive?
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For a long time, I thought something was seriously wrong with me.
It wasnât viruses.
It wasnât mold.
It wasnât parasites.
It wasnât a nutrient deficiency.
But every morning around 3 AM, Iâd wake up staring at the ceiling⊠many afternoons I would have to lay down cause I felt lightheaded⊠I would be exhausted before the day even beganâŠ. And I found myself on edge, yelling over things that werenât a big deal.
Years earlier, my husband had been extremely sick. His health was fragile, and living in that uncertainty slowly took a toll on me. I didnât realize how much fear I was carrying.
I stayed strong on the outsideâŠ
but inside my nervous system was stuck in survival mode.
Chronic fight-or-flight.
Fatigue.
Anxiousness.
Random blood sugar dips.
Never fully feeling like myself anymore.
The doctors ran test after test.
Everything came back ânormal.â
But I knew I didnât feel right. I came home from one appointment and just cried.
He took my hands and prayed.
He asked God not only for healing⊠but for wisdom and direction.
The very next day, a friend told me about the gut-brain connection and how our gut health and mental wellness are deeply connected.
That led me down a path of learning how inflammation, stress responses, and the nervous system all work together.
I also began using a probiotic drink formulated to support gut health and mental wellness by supporting beneficial bacteria linked to stress response and mood balance.
It became a helpful tool to support my nervous system. It kept me feeling calm and allowed my body to heal.
Today I understand:
You canât heal in fight-or-flight.
Your body needs calmness to restore.
And sometimes you need that little added natural support and itâs ok.
Today my probiotic drink if 20% off, and I have an addition $10 off, and free shipping code! Comment the word DRINK below and I can send info over to you along with the three coupon codes that can all be stacked!!
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Comment âLOOPâ if anxiety has ever felt like this.
Iâm Manya, an aspiring psychologist (@yourfuturepsychologist._)
Anxiety doesnât always scream.
Sometimes it repeats.
The same thought.
The same fear.
The same âwhat if.â
Over and over.
Neurologically, anxiety activates your sympathetic nervous system â
the part responsible for fight-or-flight.
Your heart rate increases.
Your breathing changes.
Your chest feels heavy.
Your muscles stay tense.
But the threat isnât always external.
Sometimes itâs cognitive.
When your brain misinterprets uncertainty as danger,
it keeps scanning.
Rechecking.
Replaying.
Thatâs why it feels like living in circles.
Youâre not weak.
Your nervous system just hasnât learned that itâs safe yet.
And safety can be relearned.
Save this for the days your mind wonât stop looping. â€ïžâđ©č
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Unexpected transitions can trigger nervous system dysregulation in autistic children and adults.
This is not about compliance or fixing behavior.
It is about reducing perceived threat and restoring a sense of control.
In this moment, I offered one calm, simple choice.
That agency helps shift the nervous system out of fight or flight and back toward regulation.
This is intentional regulation.
It is not about more options.
It is about one anchored choice, delivered calmly.
Autism and agency matter.
#autism #regulation #agency #fightorflight #transition
Is this true for you as well?
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#fightorflight #fightorflightresponse#traumaresponse#traumarecovery#
9 signs your body is giving you a red flag đ©
1. Snapping at people you love because your emotions feel unhinged
2. Random chin hairs no one warned you about
3. Looking 6 months pregnant by 3 PM from bloat and inflammation
4. Sweating through your clothes even when itâs not hot
5. Waking up with a puffy face and exhausted eyes
6. Hair thinning or falling out in the shower
7. Pooping once a week⊠or five times a day
8. Dead tired by noon but wired when itâs time to sleep
9. Dark under-eye bags no concealer can save
This isnât âjust getting older.â
Itâs not because youâre busy.
And itâs definitely not because youâre lazy.
Itâs cortisol.
When cortisol stays elevated for too long, your nervous system gets stuck in fight-or-flight, and your body shifts into survival mode. Fat storage, inflammation, anxiety, poor sleep, digestive chaos⊠all of it starts to stack.
That was me for so many years!
I tried the quick fixes.
I tried pushing harder.
I tried doing âall the right things.â
Nothing changed until I stopped chasing band-aids and started supporting my body at the root.
And everything shifted.
â 39 pounds gone
â Hormones finally rebalanced
â Mood, energy, digestion transformed
â I felt like myself again
If this list hit a little too close to home, your body isnât broken. Itâs asking for support.
Follow me @cortisol_healing_mama so you donât miss my message, then comment a â€ïž and Iâll send you my exact 2-step protocol thatâs changed everything for me.
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Your fight or flight response is always trying to tell you something. đŻ
However, it was originally meant to serve a much different purpose. While it was evolutionarily designed to save our lives - it may now cause us to irrationally feel fear in the face of everyday stressors and uncertainty.
When you start to feel anxious or panic - itâs due to your body trying to protect you and entering into this state.
If you donât face the trauma that has built up in your body - youâll constantly be triggered in the face of adversity.
Do you have any coping mechanisms that work for you? Let me know below!
#fightorflight #fightorflightresponse #trauma #dysregulation #dysregulatednervoussystem #anxiety
Your exhaustion isnât a personality trait.
Itâs survival mode.
Chronic stress doesnât just make you âbusy.â
It keeps cortisol elevated.
It keeps your body in fight-or-flight.
It keeps your cells inflamed.
And when your body doesnât feel safe, it will:
Snap at the people you love.
Wake at 3am with your mind racing.
Crave sugar.
Hold onto belly weight.
Overthink everything.
Feel anxious for no reason.
Stay exhausted no matter how much you sleep.
And most women over 40 think this is just... aging.
Itâs not.
Your toxic cells are lying to you.
Your body was designed for regulation.
For metabolic rhythm.
For system-wide coherence.
For cellular alignment.
But you cannot heal in chaos.
You donât need another diet.
You donât need more cardio.
You donât need to âtry harder.â
You need to lower cellular stress.
Reduce inflammation.
Stabilize blood sugar.
Support mitochondrial function.
Shift your internal frequency from survival to safety.
When your body feels safe:
Mood stabilizes.
Energy returns.
Weight releases.
Clarity sharpens.
Joy comes back.
I didnât just lose weight.
I regulated my system.
If youâre tired of surviving and youâre ready to actually heal at the cellular level, comment HEAL and Iâll share exactly what I use daily to reset my system.
This is the future:
2020 was cute supplements that mask symptoms.
2025 is mitochondria & repair.
The next decade is frequency and healing the cell.
#stressreduction #stressrelieving #cortisol #fightorflight #nervoussystemhealing