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Ruchi, my wife, and I had a 2-year long distance relationship when I was studying in the US. How did we fulfil that long distance? As crazy as it may sound, it was because we only talked once a week. Calling was expensive at that time. So I could afford only a 30-minute call per week. Every Thursday, I would call Ruchi on her landline. And after 30 minutes, that call would automatically disconnect. So we never got even a minute more. We were super focused because in those 30 minutes, we had to cover everything we wanted. In those 30 minutes, we didn’t fight. We didn’t complain about the small things. We were always focused on expressing ourselves. Now imagine this situation today. Imagine if you only had 30 minutes every week, how will you act differently? Will you still spend time on that useless fight? Or will you tell them how much you love them? Just because today we can talk to anyone at any time, it doesn’t mean that we take that relationship for granted. Now, because technology has made it easy to start a relationship, don’t waste that relationship. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reels #reel #reelsvideo #life #relationships #longdistance #share #feelings #focus #important #love #warikoo

5 signs of a fake friend: 1. They try to separate you from your other friends. 2. They blame you for their own misbehaviour. 3. They manipulate you with your emotions. 4. They don’t respect your boundaries. They will call you anytime, ask you to meet anytime, or even get angry anytime. 5. They stop you from growing. They keep telling you that you have changed. The truth is that they haven’t changed. Stay away from such fake friends. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reels #reel #reelsvideo #life #friends #toxic #distance #respect #boundaries #emotions #manipulation #growth #stop #warikoo

3 signs of emotional immaturity: (Inspired by @getmetherapy) 1/ Emotionally immature people become defensive very quickly. You give them feedback, and suddenly, you are the villain. 2/ They never understand what you are feeling. If you are upset, they say, “You are upset every day.” If you are angry, they say, “You get mad at small things.” 3/ They use their emotions to get their work done — crying, yelling, anger. They use these things to control the situation. Yes, you can talk to them, be patient, try to understand them… But if they don’t want to change, then you might have to change the relationship. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reels #reel #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reelsvideo #life #emotions #mature #change #blame #difficult #understand #feelings #warikoo

3 lies that school made us believe: 1) If you scored 90%, you are more intelligent than the ones who scored 80%. 2) There is only one correct answer to a question. But life doesn’t work this way. 3) The learning speed of every person should be the same. That’s why the class lasts for a year, and in this duration, every child has to finish the class at the same speed. Otherwise, they fail. To move forward in life, we must unlearn the beliefs that hold us back. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reels #reel #reelsvideo #learn #school #lies #speed #life #questions #answer #right #wrong #test #marks #better #smart #warikoo

5 people you don’t need in your life. 1. That energy drainer; the one you feel tired of talking to. 2. The pessimist, who negates everything. The one who says that it’s not going to happen - for everything. 3. The criticizer. The one who never supports any decision. Always points out mistakes. 4. The manipulator. Through their words and emotions, they try to control everything. 5. The victim. The one who always blames others for their situation. Which type of person do you have the most of in your life? #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reels #reel #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reelsvideo #life #people #avoid #hurt #feelings #blame #victim #mistakes #warikoo

3 behaviours that seem to be love but are actually toxic. 1. Extreme jealousy. In the beginning, it will seem that they really care about you deeply. But jealousy is not romantic. It’s controlling. It’s a sign of insecurity. 2. Overprotectiveness. If someone is protective towards you, it feels good in the beginning. It feels like they really care. But it ultimately restricts your freedom. This relationship is a part of your life, not the whole life. 3. Love bombing. When there is intense affection, when there are a lot of gifts, a lot of praise, it feels wonderful. But slowly, it becomes a means of control; of manipulation. Genuine love respects you. It trusts your choices. And slowly, with time, it grows. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reels #reel #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reelsvideo #life #relationships #difficult #toxic #jealous #protective #control #wrong #learn #correct #warikoo

Don’t do these 3 stupid things in any relationship: #1 Play the game of who will call first, who will text first. “I’ll see if they will call first or not.” What are you trying to test? #2 Fights on WhatsApp instead of resolving the argument by talking to each other in-person. You feel that texting will convince the other person that you are right and they are wrong. #3 When you are angry, you stop talking. Until you talk, nothing will be resolved. So, through your silence, the other person will not calm down and your anger will not melt away. But talking will resolve things. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reels #reel #reelsvideo #life #relationships #partner #fight #call #text #first #whatsapp #angry #talk #warikoo

5 luxuries not connected to money: 1. You sleep peacefully every night. 2. You have friends in your life who can share your sorrows and joys. 3. You have a person in your life with whom you can grow old, grow, and spend your whole life. 4. You have the permission to say no — without any fear, pressure, or the need to explain. 5. You are your own best friend; you can spend time with yourself without a phone, book, music, or anyone else. Just you. Inspired by @thejustinwelsh’s quote on modern luxury! #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reels #reel #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reelsvideo #life #luxury #sleep #peaceful #friends #partner #happy #no #bestfriend #warikoo

3 things that you need to stop doing if you want to be happy: 1. Going to others’ profiles, watching their Reels, and comparing your life with theirs. It never helps. 2. Telling yourself that something big is going to happen and after that, you’ll change your life. You’re waiting for something big after which you will change your life. No big time will come. You will have to take small steps to change your life today. 3. Not keeping the promises you made to yourself. If you keep breaking your promises to yourself, your self-respect and self-confidence will take such a severe hit that you will never be able to stand in front of the mirror and accept yourself. You will never be able to trust yourself. You will never be happy with yourself. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reels #reel #reelsvideo #life #stop #happy #others #highlights #change #small #steps #keep #promise #warikoo

Stop saying these 3 things in your 20s: 1. “Everybody else is so smart” - Everyone else is also confused. Feeling uncertain. Not just us! 2. “I need to settle as soon as possible” - The whole world will tell you to finish your studies quickly, get a job, get married, buy a house, and have children but your twenties are the time to explore. 3. “I need to focus on money to retire quickly” - Focus on your learning. Because if this is done well, money will be a by-product! #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reels #reel #reelsvideo #life #20s #smart #learn #grow #explore #focus #money #warikoo

When your closest friend stops pointing out your mistakes… Stops pointing out how you can correct the mistake… Then, congratulations. You have lost that friend. The truest friends are those who are honest with you, even when it hurts. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reels #reel #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reelsvideo #life #friends #friendship #honesty #lose #guide #hurt #warikoo

Ask your friends these 3 questions to know yourself: 1. If I keep living my life like this, how do you think my life will turn out? 2. What are the situations in which my best self comes out? 3. If someone asks you to describe me, what will you say? Send this to your friends and ask them right now. #reelsinstagram #reelsinsta #reelsindia #reelkarofeelkaro #reelitfeelit #reels #reel #reelsvideo #life #ask #questions #friends #learn #grow #best #warikoo