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Stevie Bowen | Certified Dating Coach

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🫶 For the dater who feels burnt out
Teaching you how to date on your terms (not the internet’s) and with more confidence!
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There’s 67 😉 more! Comment “Dating Q” to get my free guide of 72 Date Questions. Over 180 downloads from daters + one of my clients’ favorite resource!

x Stevie

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My road to becoming a date coach 👉 yes, I believe in certifications!

In some ways it was a slow burn, in others it was a smack across the face! That conversation at the birthday party changed my life. It was one of the “aha” moments of life. When everything stops moving and life becomes clear.

I’ve had many amazing coaches train, mentor, and support me over the first few years of this journey and I’m so proud to know them and learn from them!

Here’s to more learning to come!

DM me “DATING” and I’ll send a link to work with me!

x Stevie

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10 things to know about me! Hi, I’m Stevie :)

✨ Founder, author, and your dating coach.✨

My mission is to help daters find real connections through self-advocacy, confidence, and communication! Here we don’t follow a rule book. We date on our terms!

But before you work with me here’s some things you should know📩

1. I’m a British Texan. I grew up btw both places. (That’s why I have a funny accent!)
2. I was a late bloomer and proud of it! I had my first kiss at 17, I lost my vCard at 21, and had my first real boyf at 27.
3. I published my dating memoir, The City of Dating, in 2021. (It’s written in “Thank You” letters to my one-night-stands and relationships/situationships in nyc!)
4. I studied fashion and worked in fashion before losing my job and transitioning into the dating industry.
5. I write a dating advice column for almost 3 years now (it’s how this account got started!)
6. I’m a UES girl for 10+ years (only lived on the ues in New York… oops hehe!)
7. I love people and connecting daily with my local community (my fav person is my dry cleaner♥️)
8. I believe in taking action! You learn by doing. (So be ready to DO when you work with me.)
9. I found my partner by practicing what I preach! It actually works. Tried and tested.
10. I truly loved actively dating! I believe in the joy and diversity it brings to life.

And my books are open for NEW CLIENTS! 💌 DM me or go to my link to book a FREE 30min connection call with me.

Don’t need coaching? FOLLOW for weekly dating tips, inspo, and read my dating advice column. It can be juicy 😏

x Stevie

🎥 @herstudiony

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This is not an ad, just a PSA to remind you to be intentional on whatever dating app you choose. Swipe for people that you’re not just attracted to, but also are kind, authentic, and share similar interests.

It’s all in how you swipe!! Comment “dating apps” to book a dating app refresh and swiping practice with me.

x Stevie

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A walking PSA telling you NOT to ghost!! 👻

A last minute costume became a great reminder.

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Open energy is such an underrated part of meeting people IRL. Yes you need to be able to say hi to people, but you also need to be willing to say hello back. AND allow space for people to say hi. It’s all in the environment you create around yourself… ie. No phone or headphones!

x Stevie

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Do you know where ghosts hang out when it’s not Halloween? In the dating world!! 😱 Don’t let the ghosts turn you on to their silent ways. Protect yourself with copy & paste 💬

x Stevie

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Idk what’s scarier… Valentine’s Day on the Super Bowl or the Super Bowl on Valentine’s Day. But also is it kinda cute? Think of all the meet cutes at a Super Bowl party??

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🤮 zombies are so last year! Situationships rising from the dead? Follow these 3 steps!

x Stevie

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BEWARE 👻 Today’s lesson takes you through the steps of what to do post-ghost! Whether it’s been a few dates or a few months, getting ghosted feels blahh. But the last thing we want to do is TEXT THEM. Follow these steps instead 🫶

x Stevie

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That’s the power of saying it out loud, baby! Comment “DROP-IN” to do the Who Are They, Who Are We exercise with me! ❤️‍🔥

x Stevie

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Dating is a beautiful human experience that allows us to connect with new people and gives us the opportunity to expand our community.

But I get it. Dating is hard and frustrating. But if being in a long-term relationship and building a life with someone is the goal, giving up is holding you back from reaching it.

Find ways to date that work for you. And if you need help, DM me “DATING” and we’ll work together to find it!

x Stevie

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