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Valerrie | The Pleasure Priestess 👑🧿

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👑Feminine embodiment for the women who like to get paid and get laid by life
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It all started with a girl who thought love had to be earned… 👑

Extra extra read all about it 🗣️🗣️🗣️

Because at the end of this story, she remembers who the f she is 😌💅 by @valerriejoann

Pleasure is misunderstood in our society as a frivolous endeavor or an abandonment of values.

But in truth? Pleasure is the way of the Goddess. It is the source of life, the path to total fulfillment, and the actualization of all your values and desires.

Pleasure is the power to receive deeply, create fulfillingly, and love endlessly.

Because what’s the point of building a million-dollar business if all you feel from it is numb? Tired? Pulled in a million directions?

When did the life you loved creating become another thing to do, prove, and earn?

Your life, your business, your success, and your achievements should not be stripping you bare. They should be fulfilling you in return with love, life, riches, and luxury.

If they’re not? You have a pleasure integration problem, and Pleasure’d is the solution.

Curious how Pleasured could work for you? Comment “pleasured” and let’s chat 💃🏽 by @valerriejoann

& just like that chapter 27 has begun 🎂🎉 by @valerriejoann

Honestly as I am sitting in the last day being 26, I feel an overwhelming sense of grief.

27 has always been my most excited age, mainly because it is the day I was born, Golden birthday!

And after the most intense, hardest year of my life I have been so excited for this new chapter, but oddly enough I feel kinda sad to be letting 26 go.

Despite the grief, the endings, the full blown push into a completely different timeline, crying in my car, full life style changes, becoming a single mom, moving out, and more.

And while I rather eat concrete than relive 26, I am reminded of the word I chose for 2026: soar.

When I chose that word I didnt expected to be stripped of everything preventing me from flying, but sometimes you have to let go of extra baggage to really see how far you can fly.

Despite this being one of the most hardest years of my life, I found a strength and confidence within myself I wouldn’t have known without it.

And while I am happy to put this chapter to rest, I am also holding deep gratitude for the version of me who made it though everything this year threw at her.

I’m sad to let her go, because she brought me so much, and yet I know she is ready to rest too.

And for the last day being 26 I’m really going to relish and celebrate her, she brought me to where I am today, even if she can’t go with me to where I am heading. ❤️

So I guess all I’m saying in this is, leave it to a Scorpio to turn everything into a death and rebirth story 🤪

Scorpio | solar return | Scorpio szn | self growth by @valerriejoann

Your pleasure was never supposed to be another thing you earn, it has always been your divine path to total fulfillment and actually enjoying the life you live, while still achieving more.

You were never meant to feel burdened by your dream life.

You have the dream business, the love, the family, and you look at this beautiful life you created feeling nothing but numb.

And then feel guilty for not feeling more grateful, but you can’t quite shake the feeling that you are meant for feel, but still feel trapped in the life you created.

The pressure, the need, the frantic energy to keep it all, do it all, achieve it all, all while keeping a smile on your face because everyone is depending on you.

Yet, you don’t have to feel trapped by your life and success anymore, you get to feel taken care of, provided for, and deeply in love and present in your life, while everyone around you is better off too.

How? With pleasure.

Pleasure is the pathway to your fulfillment of your life, to ease, to freedom, to the exhale without having to give up all of the things you love.

Because you get to be happy, loved, taken care of, AND successful and the pathway is through your pleasure.

This is why I created Pleasure’d a 9 month intimate mastermind where we release the pressure, own your pleasure, and welcome you back home to the truth of who you are, where your success and your ease exist at once.

There is only 8 seats available, apply now to join the founding matriarch round and claim your pleasure with $$ off link in bio to apply or comment “pleasure” and I’ll send you the link 😘

High achieving woman | divine feminine power | goddess energy by @valerriejoann

Basically I’m so er😮tically turned on by life, that life just turns me on back.

Unfortunately mainstream media and society will have you believe that your pleasure is this reserved thing just with another mate.

But the truth is Pleasure is the actual blueprint to success, joy, fulfillment, money, ease, manifestation, basically life.

As a woman your power comes from your womb, and your womb is designed to receive. And to allow her to receive more of what you desire, you turn on your pleasure.

Pleasure is a magnet to getting everything that you want, and because what you focus on expands, the law of attraction, you just keep getting more and more 🥵

If you want to learn more I discussed this and actual difference between romanticizing your life vs f*king your life in my Substack comment “stack” and I’ll send you the link 😘 by @valerriejoann

Feminine energy is an amplifier meaning what you pour your energy into, the universe amplifies it.

You pour it into your man? Life pours into your man.

You pour it into your business? Life pours into your business.

You pour it into your kids? Life pours into your kids.

And now on paper this sounds great, everybody is winning, except

Who is pouring into you?

The thing I want you to understand here is when a woman pours into herself she leads from abundance.

She pours overflow into her man, her business, her kids, and she receives even more because life is pouring so deeply into her.

Ladies if you are looking to experience a whole different reality and dynamic with your man, start pouring so deeply into yourself you leave life with no other option but to do the same and allow everyone else to rise with you too.

Feminine energy | goddess energy | relationships | polarity by @valerriejoann

Stop forcing the 3D and start leading energetically.

You still have to put in effort, but instead of forcing, proving, and earning your way towards success, love, and finally feeling like you don’t have to “do it all”

You get to do what you love, align with what feels good, and deeply receive all the riches the universe has waiting for you, once you let go of control, and deepen into your pleasure.

And yes you get to be deeply taken care of, and still have your money bag up because in Goddess energy you don’t have to choose 💅

The best part? You won’t even have to utter a word, he’ll rise, take care of things, and show you how worthy and deserving you are without having to lift a finger and yes it starts with your feminine energy 💃

Follow @valerriejoann for more 😘 by @valerriejoann

This is the life you live when pleasure isn’t something you chase, but when it’s your standard.

No more carrying it all.

No more constantly feeling like you’re treading water simply to exist in your life.

No more holding it all together for everyone around you.

Pleasure is the gateway to

Finally being carried (& it being even better than before)

Finally floating peacefully in the knowing that you deserve to have all your dreams (& they are already here!)

Finally trusting that others can hold it too (& your value is still intact, & better than ever)

In simple terms, pleasure is the gateway to you not only receiving everything you want, you are already good at that, but in holding it without the fear that it will all come crumbling down with one wrong move.

If this is the standard you desire to live in your life, follow along for more 😘 by @valerriejoann

Nobody talks about this kind of grief, the one where everything looks right, not nothing feels right.

He’s so good to you. You’d marry him again tomorrow in a heart beat. You’ve built a beautiful life and yet somewhere along the way you quietly made yourself smaller so the life you built would stay comfortable.

Less opinions. Less wanting. Less pleasure.

Not because he asked you to, but because you decided being easy was safer than being fully seen. Than taking up space. Than being fully you.

This is not a “leave your marriage post” this is a “stop leaving yourself post.”

You can love him, have him, AND have yourself again. You can be a wife AND still be turned on by your life.

You were never meant to choose, you were meant to have it all.

And it starts with coming back home to yourself, to your body, and to your pleasure 🫶🏽

Want more? Hi, I’m Valerrie the pleasure priestess bridging the gap of ambition, pleasure, and love so you can have it all without dropping it all.

Welcome to the corner of the internet where you don’t have to choose 😉 follow for more ❤️ by @valerriejoann

Goddess in 5-9, Goddess in business casual 9-5 🤝

Prioritizing me all days of the week 💅 by @valerriejoann

It feels counter intuitive almost. “Valerrie, if I actually enjoy my life, how would anything change.”

But the truth is your life isn’t changing because you don’t enjoy it as it is.

You’ve been fighting, proving, and earning your way to the feeling of success, enoughness, and purpose.

It got to the point that even the things that used to make you feel fulfilled and satisfied in your life, make you feel numb.

You know you love it, yet you just can’t feel it.

And that feeling of hollowness in what once filled your soul came from you trying to earn your way to your success and your worth.

And that hole is not going to feel fulfilled until you learn to slow down in your body, in your emotions, and actually feel. Feel it all, the pleasure, the turn on, the beauty. And sometimes even the pain.

And what you’ll notice is what once took forever to come, what once felt like you had to climb 10 mountains and train 10 zebras to accomplish comes with ease, with pleasure, and with peace.

This is the standard for the women in Pleasure’d. Your success comes faster, deeper, and feels better because you can actually receive it, and hold it too.

If this is the standard you want in your life too, comment “pleasured” and I’ll send you the details 😘 by @valerriejoann