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☀️ by @_____agape

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5 days ago

A few things 🧠 lately…
Sometimes growth looks like accepting that not everyone will understand the choices you make for yourself.
At some point, you have to be willing to disappoint others in order to stop abandoning yourself.
Being a “good person” does not mean having no boundaries. It does not mean always saying yes, always explaining, or always carrying what was never yours to hold..(read it again)
Peace looks different when you finally realize you’re allowed to choose it which can also be scary.

I’ve also been thinking about the difference between being surrounded and truly connected.♾️
You can have people who love you. You can have people who want the best for you. You can have conversations, memories, and relationships and still find yourself craving a deeper sense of belonging…
Maybe that’s one of the hardest parts of life..realizing that proximity isn’t the same as connection.
Some seasons are not about collecting more people though. Maybe they’re about becoming more comfortable with yourself, understanding what you need, and recognizing what genuinely feels like home.

I’m learning that the right connections don’t leave you constantly searching for reassurance. There’s a certain peace that comes with people who communicate, show up, and make space for understanding.

But wait, I’m also learning that good intentions don’t erase the impact we have on others. Self awareness means being willing to look beyond what we meant and be honest about what we created.
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Growth requires noticing patterns🔦. Not just the moments, but the repetition.
And maybe the way forward isn’t always found by thinking about it a little longer.
Sometimes clarity comes from information. Sometimes confidence comes from action. Sometimes the only way out of feeling stuck is to take one step. Mind you…..🦻🏾
Still learning. Still growing. Still becoming.

Sidebar- even healthy relationships have there moments of uncertainty 👆🏾

🌙 by @_____agape

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11 days ago

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15 days ago

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16 days ago

I think a lot of people spend their lives searching for evidence that they matter.
Not because they’re insecure, but because somewhere along the way they learned that love, acceptance, attention, or belonging had conditions attached to them. So they become experts at reading between the lines. They analyze responses, study people’s behavior, body language , and search for reassurance in places where reassurance was never meant to be found. (Ever)
Over time, life can start to feel like a constant audition. We try to be useful enough, kind enough, successful enough, attractive enough, helpful enough, hoping that if we get everything right, we’ll finally feel secure in our place. We begin measuring ourselves by how often we’re chosen, included, remembered, or prioritized.
But no amount of external validation can permanently answer an internal question.
Because the real question was never whether other people see our value. The real question is whether we believe we have value when nobody is looking. Whether we believe our presence has worth even when it isn’t being acknowledged. Whether we can sit with ourselves in moments of uncertainty, quiet, without immediately assuming we’ve been forgotten.

Maybe growth isn’t learning how to get more approval. Maybe it’s learning that our existence doesn’t require constant confirmation. Maybe it’s realizing that we were never meant to spend our lives collecting evidence that we deserve a place in the world.

Ps: 1.The amount of good things in your life depends on your ability to notice them.

2. Not everything valuable announces itself loudly.

3. Self awareness requires your willingness to trace a pattern across contexts…

4. Take a breathe by @_____agape

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2 months ago

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2 months ago

Quick repost..looking for 1–2 more people to join my 8-week trial.
Started at the beginning of the month, finishing up at the end of May.
We’ll be training Monday–Wednesday (possibly Thursday), either 5AM or 6PM.
Please email me if you’re interested or have questions.
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💨🦵🏾🦾🫀⚕️ by @_____agape

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3 months ago

Pour out what lives in your heart, and let it set your soul on fire.

Do not fear the intensity of what you feel in giving fully of yourself.

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5 months ago

📵 by @_____agape

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5 months ago

Gratitude, Aura, sunshine

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6 months ago

Your gifts in the wrong hands are weapons against you… not because you’re fragile, but because you’re rare.
Step out of the noise of your own thoughts and into the moment that’s asking for you now. We aren’t here long enough to live entirely in our heads. Time moves, bodies change, seasons pass but love, when practiced in the present, outlives the clock. So does softness. 🫂
Use your discernment, yes..but don’t harden. Be fluid in your gentleness. Let your truth be lived, not armored. What’s meant for you will know how to hold you. (Even if you are a little nervous)

Be present. Be loving. Be soft. Be wise And don’t betray who you are just to survive. ✨ by @_____agape

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6 months ago