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Today feels surreal…

There’s something I’ve been holding quietly for a while, writing, feeling, pouring my heart into pages.
And today, I’m ready to share it.

I’m officially announcing my launch date…
I am now an author.

This book was born from years of holding space, listening, loving, and growing, both with others and within myself. It carries my journey, my experience, pieces of my heart, my work, and the truths I believe can truly keep a home.

Launch date: April 11th,2026

Thank you for being here, for trusting me, and for witnessing my journey, not just as a therapist, but as a woman devoted to love, connection, and growth.
This is just the beginning!

#abilightchronicles #thegiftcalledmarriage #relationshiptalkwithabilight #twoheartonebeat #marriage by @abilightajayi
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We are thrilled to announce that registration for THOB 3.0 is officially LIVE! This yearly communal event has become a sanctuary for couples who desire to grow, build, and dream together.

This year, we are diving into our most profound theme yet: “DEPTH OF US.” 

Whether you are newlyweds or have been building your legacy for decades, this experience is designed to take you beneath the surface. It is a journey to explore the layers of your union, bringing you closer to God and deeper into the heart of each other.

In the “Depth of Us,” we find the strength to build a vision that is not just seen, but felt.

🎁 SPECIAL EARLY BIRD RATE: Live now through February 15th!

🔗 Click the link in my bio to join us! 😘

#thob3 #depthofus #abilightchronicles #twoheartsonebeat #kingdommarriage by @abilightajayi
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8 months ago
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Being a total woman doesn’t mean being perfect. It means embracing ALL of who you are. 

Your faith. Your finances. Your health. Your relationships. Your purpose.

It’s growing towards wholeness in every area of your life—and knowing you don’t have to do it alone. There is room for you to learn, heal, build and become, surrounded by women growing alongside you.

THE TOTAL WOMAN is an invitation to invest in all of you. Not a perfect you. A whole, growing you. 

📅 Saturday, 31 October 2026 at 11 AM
📍 The Bridge Place, 8 Rue de la Pointe, 93130 Noisy-le-Sec
🎟️ Free entry - registration required.

Register through the LINK IN OUR BIO, and invite a sister to join you. Let’s grow together. 

#TheTotalWoman #SistersConference2026 #JaelFlame #TheBridgeParis taken in Ile-de-France, France by @abilightajayi
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Sometimes you have to get quiet, step away from the noise, draw closer to God, and allow Him to do a deeper work in you privately.

Not every season needs to be announced; some growth happens in silence, some healing happens away from the crowd, some clarity comes when you stop explaining and simply sit with God.
And sometimes, by the time people notice the change, God has already been working on you for a while. 

God is faithful! 

Beautiful moments from Antwerp, Belgium 🇧🇪 a short but lovely getaway with my sis @thedeborahdike 😘

#abilightchronicles #relationshiptalkwithabilight #shorttrip #christiansisters by @abilightajayi
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Sometimes the greatest danger is not that we stop looking spiritual, but that we learn how to keep functioning while our hearts are drifting from God.

You can still serve, still speak, still lead, still look “on fire” and yet be losing your hunger for Him.

So today, this is the heart check:
Are you still abiding?
Are you still hungry?
Are you still where God placed you?

Don’t let public fire hide private distance.

May Christ find us not only working for Him, but truly walking with Him.

#abilightchronicles #relationshiptalkwithabilight #hispresence #occupyingtillhecomes by @abilightajayi
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Meet the women joining us for The Total Woman. 💃🏾

This is a gathering for every part of us as women : our faith, health, finances, purpose, confidence, relationships and our future.
Come ready for honest, practical and faith-filled conversations on:
• Real estate
• Finance
• Health
• Becoming a Total Woman(spiritually and in every area of life)
We’re honoured to welcome: Mrs Jennifer Ohonbamu, Mrs Kemi Lawal, Our Mother in the House, Mrs Abigail Ajayi, Mrs Dapo Shijuade and Mrs Angeline Koffi

This is only the beginning so Block your calendars and stay Close!

The Total Woman
🗓️ Saturday, 31 October 2026
📍The Bridge Place, 8 Rue de la Pointe, 93130 Noisy-le-Sec
🎟️Free entry · Registration required - Register via the link in our bio.
👗Dress code: Colourful Blazers & Pins

#thetotalwoman #sistersconference2026 #thebridgeparis #womanofpurpose #jaelflame by @abilightajayi
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I don’t know who this message is for, but total surrender is giving your all to God, not just the parts that are easy to release.

It is trusting Him with your plans, your timing, your desires, your questions, and even the things you thought your life would look like.

Mary asked questions, but she still came to the place of saying, Let it be unto me according to Your word.

Sometimes surrender is not about having all the answers; it is simply saying, Lord, I trust You enough to let Your will be greater than mine.

If God is asking you to release, wait, move, or begin again, may you receive the grace to say yes.

Your will, Lord 🙏🏾

#relationshiptalkwithabilight #abilightchronicles #godlove #totalsurrender #surrendering by @abilightajayi
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Grace has carried me through seasons I thought would break me, sustained me when my strength was low, and reminded me again and again that I am never walking alone.

This month, I’m choosing to move with gratitude, confidence, and joy because I know that where my strength ends, His grace continues.

Grace for the journey. Grace for the assignment. Grace for the becoming. Grace for every step ahead.

So yes, I’m dancing into this month with a grateful heart because I know I am being carried by something greater than my own strength.

Welcome to my month of GRACE. 🤎

👗
#abilightchronicles #peace #grace #godsloveneverfails #allnight by @abilightajayi
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12 days ago
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Sometimes, one painful moment can become so loud that we forget the many ways God has already been faithful.

But His character does not change because our circumstances did.

You can cry, you can feel disappointed, you can tell God exactly how you feel. But don’t allow one difficult season to rewrite everything you already know about Him.

Remember His track record…remember His goodness… remember His faithfulness.

God is still God.
And God is still good, even when life doesn’t feel good. 

#abilightchronicles #relationshiptalkwithabilight #godisgood #peace by @abilightajayi
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17 days ago
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A day isn’t enough to celebrate a woman whose impact has spanned years and continues to touch generations. 

Celebrating you again Ma, not just for what you do, but for the lives you continue to shape through your wisdom, your voice, your example, and your commitment to strengthening marriages and families.

It is such a privilege to glean from the grace God has placed upon your life. Thank you for pouring, teaching, leading, and showing us what it looks like to serve purpose with consistency.
May the years ahead speak even louder of God’s faithfulness over your life. 
Happy birthday once again, Pastor Mildred. You are deeply loved, honoured, and celebrated, Ma. 

#abilightchronicles #relationshiptalkwithabilight #pastormildred #justusgirlsglobal by @abilightajayi
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Speak well of your spouse. 

There is something beautiful about still being able to look at the person you married and say, “I’m grateful God gave me you.”
Don’t become so familiar with your spouse that you stop seeing, saying, and celebrating the good in them.

Calling your husband wonderful doesn’t mean your marriage has no disagreements, imperfections, or areas where you both need to grow. It simply means you recognize who he is beyond those moments.
Let your spouse hear the beautiful things you think about them. Affirm them. Celebrate them. Speak life over them and over your marriage.

Sometimes, just look at your person and say, “After all these years, I’m still grateful I get to do life with you.” 

#abilightchronicles #relationshiptalkwithabilight #maritalbliss #besthusbandintheworld #createdforyou by @abilightajayi
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22 days ago
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ONE MONTH TO GO. 🤎

We’re officially one month away from the Church Girlies Conference 2026, and today we’re excited to finally introduce the women who will be joining us this year.

Meet the women who will be serving alongside us as we gather around this year’s theme:

CONSECRATED
Set Apart. Surrendered. Prepared for His Use.

Pastor Yasmin O’Lugudor @yasmin_o_lugudor 
Pastor Abigail Ajayi @abilightajayi 
Pastor Lizzy Okogie @smilinglizzy_ 
Pastor Bola Ogedengbe 

We’re grateful for each of these women and honoured to have them join us for this year’s gathering. We’re looking forward to all that God will do as we come together around His Word, in worship, prayer and fellowship.

Over the coming days, we’ll be introducing each speaker individually and sharing a little more about who they are and what they carry.

The countdown begins today. One month until we gather at the well. 🥺🤎

📅 Saturday, 24 October 2026
📍 EPV Philadelphie Paris, Noisy-le-Grand
⏰ 11:00 AM – 6:00 PM
🎟️ Free registration

Registration is open through the link in our bio…

#ChurchGirlies 
#ChurchGirliesConference 
#Consecrated 
#BringingWomenToTheWell 
#ChristianWomen by @abilightajayi
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