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For women ready to choose themselves with luxury & softness.💕
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You’re looking at a woman who’s lived through reinvention—and came out more stylish, more self-assured, and more in love with life than ever. 💕

I’m Tia, and around here, we dress like we have somewhere important to be—even if that place is just becoming the version of ourselves we’ve been waiting on.✨

From life transitions to luxury finds, I share pieces of my world to help you embrace yours.
Follow for style, self-care, and soft life energy—served with confidence.💎

#blackgirlluxury #blackgirlluxurylifestyle #fashiongirlies #ootdblackwomen #fashioncontentcreator #luxuryinfluencer taken in Dallas, Texas by @accordingtotia
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a year ago
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For women in transition:
Follow if you’re ready to make the switch from Supporting Character to ✨Main Character✨

💖You’re gonna love it here.

If you’re new here, don’t be shy. Say hi 👋🏾 
If we’re already friends, let me know what content you enjoy most coming from me or would like to see more of.

I WANT TO HEAR FROM Y’ALL! 💕🤗

#AccordingtoTia #dallasinfluencer #womenintransition #millennialwife #millennialmom #housewifelife #blackgirlluxury #travelingwhileblack #becomingher taken in Dallas, Texas by @accordingtotia
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a year ago
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💎NEW SERIES ALERT 💎
Lady T has entered the chat.

After years of healing, evolving, and sharing the glow…
It’s time we add a little leisure to the timeline.

Allow me to formally introduce… Lady T.😎

She’s dramatic. She’s unnecessary. She’s allergic to effort.
And she’s my alter ego for my new satirical soft-life series: Lady of Leisure (LOL). ✨

This is my reminder to myself (and to you):
Not everything has to be a lesson. Sometimes the content is just… vibes.🥂

Follow my new page @ladyofleisureseries for glamour, silliness, and scenes from a life of lightly earned luxury. Don’t follow if you are in a space where you’re taking everything TOO seriously.

Because healing is important—but so is pretending you’re too delicate to open your own door.😂

📣 LET’S MAKE CONTENT FUN AGAIN 📣
#LadyofLeisure #LadyofLeisureSeries #BlackGirlLuxury
#BlackWomenInLuxury
#softlife 
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a year ago
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Yes, I know it’s October 4th. Grown women run on their own time. 💗

I made a Burn Book. Grown Woman Edition.

It’s not for people. It’s for the habits that have been quietly running our lives:

🔥 Waiting on the group chat before you live your life
🔥 Saying “I’m good with whatever” until you forget what you even like
🔥 Saving the good perfume for an occasion that never comes

Somewhere in our 30s, we got really good at accommodating everybody and really bad at choosing ourselves. We’re done with that.

Which one are you burning first: 1, 2, or 3? Tell me in the comments 👇🏾

And send this to the friend who STILL hasn’t answered the group chat poll. You know the one. 😂

#MeanGirlsDay #October3rd #AccordingToTia #BurnBook #GrownWomanEra WomenInTheir30s ReinventYourself MeanGirls by @accordingtotia
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12 days ago
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Somewhere between the fresh pasta and the wine, I decided this is exactly how you’re supposed to experience Venice. 🇮🇹🍝🍷

One of my favorite things I did in Venice, Italy was taking a cooking class and learning to make authentic Italian food from scratch. 10/10 experience because sightseeing is cute, but I want to DO something when I travel. 😂🤌🏾

Definitely add a cooking class to your Venice itinerary.

#VeniceItaly #ItalyTravel #VeniceTravel #CookingClass #ThingsToDoInVenice by @accordingtotia
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20 days ago
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Tia Tried It: @SotoMethod 💦✨

My latest excuse to get out of my routine, try something new, and figure out what I actually like.

SotoMethod just opened its new Dallas studio, so I got to try a SotoSweat class before the doors officially opened and babyyyy…don’t let the cute matching set and beautiful studio fool you. WE WORKED. 😂

It gave me Pilates + cardio + a little yoga all wrapped into one very sweaty experience…and surprisingly, I’d absolutely do it again.

This season is all about trying new things without needing to know if they’re “for me” first. Sometimes you have to try it to find out. 🤷🏾‍♀️

So what should Tia Try next? 👀

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24 days ago
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🚨 I need my glam squad! 💃🏽🍷✨

Tomorrow night is Havana Nights at Castello di Amorosa in Napa, and I cannot decide which dress is giving romance, luxury, and a little main character energy. ❤️🏰

Which look would you choose for a night of wine, music, and dancing at a castle?

❤️ Dress 1 or 2? Tell me your pick in the comments and don’t be afraid to explain why! 

I’ll be announcing the winning dress in my Stories tomorrow before I head to the event, so come back and see if your favorite makes the cut. 🍇✨

💾 Save this if you love outfit inspiration, and tag the friend whose fashion advice you always trust!

#HavanaNights #NapaStyle #OutfitInspiration #LuxuryLifestyle #StyleInspo by @accordingtotia
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3 months ago
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Proof that one bad experience doesn’t get the final say. 🍾✨ #TiaTriedIt

The first time I tried champagne sabering, it was kinda tragic lol. 😅

The second time? I found myself in Venice, Italy, volunteering to do it again. This time I had the right instruction, a little more courage, and a whole lot more confidence. ⚔️🥂

Sometimes the difference between failure and success isn’t talent… it’s getting another chance.

Have you ever gone back and tried something again after it didn’t go your way the first time? Tell me your full-circle moment in the comments! ⬇️

💾 Save this for your Italy travel bucket list and follow along for more Tia Tried It adventures where I step outside my comfort zone so we can see what happens together.

 #ItalyTravel #VeniceItaly #ChampagneSabering LuxuryTravel by @accordingtotia
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3 months ago
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A little throwback before we make new memories. ✨🍷

Last year, I experienced Havana Nights at @thecastello and this weekend I’m heading back to Napa to make even more memories. 🏰

Should I expect it to be even better this year? 🤭

Meet me in my Stories tomorrow because I’ll need your help choosing what to wear (again 😂). 
Your votes never disappoint!

❤️ Save this for future Napa travel ideas, and send this to your favorite travel partner.

#NapaWeekend #WineLovers #LuxuryTravelLife #CaliforniaWineCountry #TravelDiary by @accordingtotia
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3 months ago
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🚨 I have a new series… and y’all are about to get me into some situations. 😂

Welcome to Tia Tried It! A new series where I say yes to experiences I’ve never done before and take you along for the ride.

Episode 1: Aerial Silks at @funkflowstudio. 🩷

Now it’s your turn…

What’s ONE thing you’ve always wanted to try OR think I should try next? 👇🏽

I’m choosing my favorite suggestion for Episode 2, so make it a good one. 😂

💾 Save this as your reminder to stop waiting to be perfect and just start.

#TiaTriedIt #TrySomethingNew #AerialSilks #DallasCreator #LifestyleCreator by @accordingtotia
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3 months ago
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Some people will always have opinions about magic they’ve never possessed. Meanwhile… I’ll be over here protecting my peace, staying in my lane, and letting the results speak for themselves. ✨

That’s all!💋

#dallasinfluencer #maincharacter #softlifeera #ladyofleisure #travelinfluencer by @accordingtotia
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4 months ago
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You know your friends know you well when their predictions are all exactly the same. 😂🥂

I asked the cast of Glam Gone Wild what they expected from the night and what I’m like after two cocktails.

The verdict?

I’m apparently a party animal.
The night was going to be a good time.
And nobody expected us to be home before midnight. 😭

Honestly? Fair.

The best part wasn’t hearing the answers..it was realizing how loved I am by people who’ve seen every version of me and still happily RSVP “yes” to my shenanigans.

The planner.
The traveler.
The soft life enthusiast.
The woman who somehow turns a simple dinner into a full production. 🎬🐆✨

And apparently… the friend who’s always down for a good time. 🥂😂

Now tell me…

What’s one thing your friends would unanimously say about you? 👀👇🏽

Because mine would probably say:

“Tia is going to find a way to make it an experience.”

Comment below and tag the friend who would answer before you even got the chance. 😭💕

#GlamGoneWild #BirthdayEra #FriendshipGoals #RealityShowEnergy #MainCharacterMoment by @accordingtotia
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4 months ago
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