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Trauma Recovery Expert|Therapist| Fertility Coach in Lagos

@adeolakingsleyjames

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Your work will bring you before Kings, the Bible says and this is my story.

Thank you for the vote of confidence ma'am.

I serve as a Rapid Tranformational Therapist, Clinical hypnotherapist and now a Fertility therapist and Inner Belief Coach. Trained with the best of the best @marisapeertherapy I had the best teacher. I also serve as an Emotional Code expert and Soma Breathwork Facilitator.

In a nutshell, I am A Soul Awakener and an Inner Harmony Expert.

What are you waiting for, click the link in my bio, We will meet, You will Speak, We will Ignite and you will Shine.

Two things will happen, you will never settle for less ever again and you will always choose you first without any guilt.

I await you on the other side of your greatness. I love you ❤️❤️ by @adeolakingsleyjames

Allow me to introduce myself again

My name is Adeola Kingsley-James, and I wear a few hats: I'm a hypnotherapist, a stepmom advocate, a kingmaker, a love being, a lifegiver, and a light on this beautiful journey we call life.

To be completely honest with you, my path to becoming a stepmother wasn’t an easy one. I wasn’t prepared for it at all. There were moments I felt lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of myself. But guess what? I scaled through!

Now, I'm proud to say I've grown into a better wife, mother, and stepmom than I ever thought possible—and trust me, you can do the same!

That’s why I created @omgglobalconsulting Owning My Greatness, a passion project born from my personal experiences, to help stepmothers find their footing and not just survive, but thrive! Because if I could do it, so can you.

It’s a tough journey, no doubt, but the good news is YOU don’t have to walk it alone. Together, we can rewrite the narrative of stepmotherhood.

If you're struggling with your own journey as a stepmom, I want you to know this: everything I went through, I went through for you. Yes, YOU. To help guide you through the challenges and show you that you can come out on the other side stronger and more fulfilled.

We’re in this together, and there’s so much light ahead, I promise!

Drop a ❤️ in the comments if this resonates with you.

If you need to talk, send me a DM with 'I Need To Talk' and I'd be glad to help you.
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I am a life-giver
I am a kingmaker
I am a love being by @adeolakingsleyjames

Sometimes what looks like control is actually fear wearing a very organised outfit.

The woman who needs every detail planned. The woman who struggles to delegate. The woman who feels responsible when something goes wrong.

The woman who says, "I'll just do it myself." She may not be trying to control everyone.
She may be trying to create the safety she didn't experience when she was younger.

When you learned early that someone had to hold everything together, letting go can feel dangerous.
Even when you're exhausted. Even when you're successful. Even when everyone tells you that you are "so strong."
Healing asks a different question: "What would happen if I no longer believed everything depended on me?"

That's a powerful question for the overachieving woman who has spent years carrying more than she was ever meant to carry.

If this sounds familiar, you can book a session with me through the link in my bio.

#OverachievingWomen #ControlAndAnxiety #InnerChildHealing #SoulWounds #NervousSystemHealing #WomensHealing #AdeolaKingsleyJames by @adeolakingsleyjames

Hello November!

#OverachievingWomen #ControlAndAnxiety #InnerChildHealing #SoulWounds #NervousSystemHealing #WomensHealing #AdeolaKingsleyJames by @adeolakingsleyjames

For some women, finding their own voice isn't about learning how to speak louder.
It's about learning what they actually think.

What they actually want. What they actually believe.
After years of being shaped by family expectations, cultural expectations, relationships, motherhood, work and the need to be liked, it can become surprisingly difficult to separate your authentic voice from everyone else's.
You may know what everyone around you needs.

But what do you need? You may know what would make everyone else happy.
But what would make you feel whole? Healing can create enough internal safety for your own voice to become audible again.

And sometimes, she has been there all along.
If you're ready to reconnect with yourself beneath the roles you've spent years performing, book a session with me through the link in my bio.

Save this if you're in your own "learning to hear myself again" season.

#IdentityHealing #SelfDiscovery #WomensHealing #PeoplePleasing #InnerWork #EmotionalHealing #AdeolaKingsleyJames by @adeolakingsleyjames

"My childhood was fine, nothing happened." Then she described crying herself to sleep every night with the door closed so nobody would ask why.

Trauma isn't only what happened to you. It's also what should have happened and didn't. The comfort that never came. The "I see you" you never heard. That's a real wound even with no bruise to prove it.

"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted." — Psalm 34:18
Close, even to the wounds nobody else could see. If this named something, book your 1-on-1 with me, link in bio.

#ChildhoodEmotionalNeglect #InnerChildHealing #EmotionalNeglect #TheLifegiverMethod #TraumaHealing #BookYourSession by @adeolakingsleyjames

Sometimes "I'm lost" is actually the discomfort of no longer being who you used to be.
The old identity isn't working anymore.
But the new one hasn't fully arrived.

So you find yourself asking:
"What am I doing?"
"Who am I becoming?"
"Why doesn't this feel like me anymore?"
Maybe because it isn't supposed to.

There are seasons where you have to release an identity before you can fully inhabit the next one.
The version of you who survived. The version who pleased everyone. The version who achieved to feel worthy.
The version who stayed quiet to keep the peace. The version who needed to be needed. The version who could handle everything.

She may have served you once. But you don't have to keep carrying an old identity simply because it helped you survive an old season. This carousel is an invitation to stop rushing the in-between.

You don't have to have the entire next chapter figured out before you're allowed to let the previous one end.
Sometimes the uncertainty is part of the transformation. If you're standing in that uncomfortable space between who you were and who you're becoming, this may be the work worth exploring.

Book a session with me through the link in my bio.

#IdentityHealing #LifeTransitions #WomensHealing #HealingJourney #SoulWounds #PersonalGrowth #AdeolaKingsleyJames by @adeolakingsleyjames

She threw up before every pitch rehearsal for three weeks. Gave it anyway. Voice cracking on slide two. Eight months later she was closing seven-figure deals.

Confidence isn't a feeling you wait for. It's a decision you keep making before you're ready. Every time you do it scared, you're rewriting the evidence your brain has on who you are.

"Be strong and of good courage... for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." — Joshua 1:9
Courage first. Feeling follows. Let's build your reps — book your 1-on-1 with me, link in bio.

#ConfidenceReset #28DayConfidenceReset #ConfidenceCoach #TheLifegiverMethod #DoItScared #BookYourSession by @adeolakingsleyjames

I’ll be at the FWIFT Convention 2026! 🎬✨
A gathering of women across film, television, advertising and all screen based media to connect, learn from industry experts, build meaningful relationships and explore new opportunities.

It’s all about growing together, collaborating and building a stronger industry for women. ❤️

📅 Thursday, 29 October 2026
⏰ 11 AM – 4 PM
📍 Glover Memorial Hall, Lagos
Come be part of the conversation!
Register here: https://app.eventeps.com/FWIFT2026 by @adeolakingsleyjames

Not every room is meant to receive you. And not every rejection is an invitation to try harder.

Sometimes the lesson isn't "How do I make them see my value?" Sometimes the lesson is "Why am I still standing at this door asking to be chosen?" High-achieving women can be especially familiar with chasing.

Another qualification. Another achievement. Another opportunity. Another attempt to prove that we deserve to be there. But healing can change the question.

Instead of asking, "How do I make myself enough for this room?" You begin asking, "Does this room have the capacity for the woman I am becoming?" That's not arrogance. That's discernment.

If you've spent years proving yourself, overachieving, overgiving and trying to earn belonging, there may be a deeper story underneath that pattern.

That's the work we can explore together.
Book a session with me through the link in my bio.
Save this for the woman who needs permission to stop auditioning for spaces that require her to shrink.

#HighAchievingWomen #OverachievingWomen #SelfWorth #IdentityHealing #WomensHealing #Boundaries #AdeolaKingsleyJames by @adeolakingsleyjames

Meet our distinguished panelists for the FWIFT Convention 2026

From powerful storytelling and journalism to media, fashion, creative leadership and business, these women are making their mark in their respective fields and contributing to the conversations shaping our industry.

✨ Kadaria Ahmed | Journalist & Media Entrepreneur @kadariaahmed
✨ Biodun Stephen | Award-Winning Writer, Director & Producer @biodunstephen
✨ Rosemary Egabor-Afolahan | Board Director & Market Strategist @reaspeaks1
✨ Gbemi Olateru Olagbegi | Media & Fashion Entrepreneur @gbemioo
✨ Esosa Osagiede| Award-Winning Group Creative Director & Leader @reeleseoflife

Moderated by Adeola Kingsley-James, @adeolakingsleyjames Television Producer, Consultant, Therapist & Global Speaker.

Together, they will bring their expertise, experiences and distinct perspectives to a conversation on inclusion, representation and the barriers and opportunities shaping the future of our industry.

Because building a stronger industry requires the voices of those who are already doing the work and creating change.

ONE INDUSTRY. MANY VOICES. WE BUILD TOGETHER.

📅 Thursday, 29 October 2026
⏰ 11 AM
📍 Glover Memorial Hall, Lagos

#FWIFTConvention2026 #OneIndustryManyVoices #WomenInFilm #WomenInMedia #BuildingTogether by @adeolakingsleyjames