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Ari - Life Coach for Adventurers

@ariintheair

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Founder of The Paragliding Men's Group
Cohort 6 launches Nov 2026
For men ready to consciously lead their families
Apply here👇

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New video on my YouTube with Beni Kalin, pilot pictured, parakite innovator and instructor

We talk all things parakite, including how to progress safely with them

Link in bio by @ariintheair

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Paragliding video that has gotten millions of views

People hate my opinion that paragliding is the pinnacle of sport

People love my enthusiasm

They love the insane moment so well captured

I love my life, and I don't give a fugg what the trolls have to say

I lead men's groups and help committed men have better relationships

I am help men have better communication and conflict resolution skills

So they can be better husbands and fathers

And live as more authentic versions of themselves

If you're ready to quit the useless fighting

To break the patters of distance, reactivity and exhaustion in your marriage

To shed the old stories of being a victim

And step into deeper connection, service and reality

Join us in The Men's Group

A 12-week online intensive where adventurous men come to get the skills and support they need to take their relationships to the next level

Dm or link in bio to apply

Love and lift,
Ari by @ariintheair

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It is profound, yet so simple

Have a life on the earth worth your enthusiasm, and you will naturally protect yourself in the air

For those men who want to have children, wives, businesses AND paraglide

The men who wanna paraglide for their soul, but have lives that mean the world to them

THE PARAGLIDING MENS GROUP IS FOR YOU

Apply now - this is your last chance to get in before the price goes up. A lot.

Link in bio (it is a link to schedule a 1-on-1 call with me, where we will dive deep into what matters most to you, and I will gift you big support, wether you sign up or not, so don't hesitate to click and apply) by @ariintheair

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Being vulnerable doesn’t mean livestreaming yourself sobbing

Or spilling to your friends about your childhood wounds

What your wife and family would really benefit from

Is taking responsibility for your part in every conflict

Acknowledging when something hurts without first lashing out or coping

And starting to articulate your inner states as best you can.

It’s pretty simple

But there’s lots of things in us that stop it from being easy.

If you want to be close with anyone, it starts with you having the capacity to notice what’s going on inside you

Then having the courage and articulation to share it.

Add some sick listening skills

And you’re off to the intimacy races

And you’ll be amazed where you find connection that you never expected

If you are ready to go deeper with your wife/partner/family

PGMG 6 is launching in November - a group of men hellbent on better and doin it together

By application only. Link in bio to apply

Love and lift,
Ari by @ariintheair

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You are a good person, so

Saying no feels dangerous

you try to be available and useful at every turn

Keep the peace and dont rock the boat

Years of subtle people pleasing leaves little of your former, stoked self remaining

The young version of you that said no often. Hell fucking no, even.

I’m not talking about becoming an obstinate father who doesn’t pull his weight in daily life

I’m talking about a man who protects his vitality, so he can give his family a high-energy leader who’s still in touch with his joy

A man who is willing to disappoint people in the short term

To keep his integrity and life force in the long term

If you sell your soul to tasks that you resent, what are you giving to your kids?

A great example of self-abandonment? A resentful debt that you expect them to repay in your old age?

If you really want to serve your family, you’ll need to get comfortable and skilled at saying hell no

So your family can feel that you actually choose them with a full fuck yes

If you’re ready for this kind of dangerous life work

And you want to invest into a group of 11 other powerful fathers doing the same

Cohort six of the Paragliding Men’s Group, Family Man, starts in November

By application only. Link in bio.
Love and lift,
Ari by @ariintheair

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Comment “Inner” and I will send you the training

Been thinking about this topic for at least five years

And this is the most concise framework I can think of

Lmk what you think by @ariintheair

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Comment “YT77” for the link of the full YouTube video.

He fell through his lines mid-Infinity Tumble.

And he stays calm.

Can’t clear the lines with his hands?

He passes them to his foot and kicks himself free.

The wing opens up and starts to autorotate.

So he lets go.

Cuts away.

Parachute open.

That’s composure under pressure.

Also, The Paragliding Men’s Group is taking applications for cohort 6. 12 men. Starts November.

Link in bio to apply.

Love and lift,
Ari by @ariintheair

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Comment “Inner” and i will send you the link

100 pilots have already watched this in the last week

You dont want to miss it by @ariintheair

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Comment “Tough” for the full video link

How to actually evolve as a pilot and a man

TLDR: stop throwing away all the good data that you are getting

You have thoughts and feelings and tension and fear

Or you feel stoke and elation

But then, nothing

You aren’t locking it in. You’re not taking the lessons and digesting them. You’re not seeking out feedback and improvements.

Which, for being a sport that can kill you in a second, is kinda crazy

The same exact thing applies in your personal life, all your relationships, your family, your business

Fan the flames of your sensitivity and get more and more sensitive while increasing your resilience

And you will grow more, faster.

And if this kind of work interests you, apply for The Paragliding Men’s Group

Where men are ditching their people pleasing habits to become more securely themselves

They are trading their doubt for deep commitment

And they are learning how to communicate, how to resolve conflicts and how to be a leader in their homes, relationships and businesses

Link in bio to apply by @ariintheair

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Comment “YT77” for the link of the full YouTube video.

He just fell through his lines.

Upside down.

Feet above his head.

A wing spinning overhead.

And what’s the first thing he has to fight?

Not the lines on his legs.

Not the glider.

A tiny, unused camera mount.

One line hooked on it.

Pulling his helmet sideways.

Try after try after try.

That’s how snag hazards work.

They don’t cause the emergency.

They make it worse.

Check your harness.

Check your helmet.

Check your shackles, your speed bar, your zippers.

Anything that can catch a line… eventually will.

Also, The Paragliding Men’s Group is taking applications for cohort 6.

This one is for the adventure fathers. The fathers ready to lead their families with presence, passion, and fire. 12 men. Starts November.

Link in bio to apply.

Love and lift,
Ari by @ariintheair

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Its been an interesting start to the week 🤣

Lookout, shit is changing around here by @ariintheair

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Our daughter is six months old today

In six months, she has been away from her mother for less than twelve waking hours. Total.

Shes been held, carried, nursed, every second of every day.

Six weeks in the Alps, and they were apart for less than two hours.

Hundreds of miles hiked with the baby strapped to her chest

And somehow, it hasn’t drained my wife. It’s filled her.

Her joy, her presence, her playfulness. A level of life force I’ve never seen in her before.

Watching her carry, deliver, and love this child into the world, so completely, has reshaped my understanding of what a woman is, what a mother is, what a wife is.

I’m humbled to pieces

Over the moon with gratitude for her relentless, constant care

And our daughter shows it

Her attachment to her mother, and to me, is so strong and so secure.

She soothes easily. She’s so happy. So healthy.

So grateful for my wife.

A million thank yous isnt enough.

You gave me the gift of our child

I give you my deepest commitment to both of you

To grow into the man, husband and father that i know i can be

To be the suspension that carries us through the bumps in comfort and ease

To protect and provide in the deepest and realest way possible

To lift you both up with all my might, all the time

Thanks for loving our child so good

Ari by @ariintheair

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