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I am Jane Doe. And I am ready to share my story.

Content warning: child sexual abuse

When I was 15, I was groomed, manipulated, and sexually abused by a 35-year-old man, Tom Krshka. He was married to my horse trainer. I practically lived at their house in the summers, riding horses, traveling to horse shows, and going to ropings with him.

He was my hero—someone I looked up to and trusted. He had power and status in my world and exploited that trust to sexually abuse me.

Showing my horse in @officialaqha competitions was the thing I loved most. Winning a World Championship was my dream. I won!!

It was one of the greatest joys of my life. At the same time, I was being abused by him.

Minutes after I won, he hugged me and said, “Finally I have a reason to hug you in front of everybody else.”

In my championship picture, I’m crying. Those tears weren’t just happiness. That moment was tangled up with so much abuse.

Looking back, it makes sense why he wanted me alone at the barn, always wanted me at ropings, took me across state lines to horse shows and bought me wine coolers...when I WAS 15. I would freeze and do whatever he told me to do.

It wasn’t until I was 30 that I understood what had happened and how he had targeted, groomed, and abused me. My first sexual experiences happened under manipulation and coercion. It took me years to heal, reclaim my autonomy, and understand consent.

Even now, memories surface at night that I try to push down because I can’t bear to remember. I carried shame that never belonged to me.

I wasn’t the only one.

Now, at 55, I’m ready to share this publicly. My friends have known for years, but I only told my mom two years ago. Talking with her has been deeply healing.

For 40 years, I stayed publicly quiet, afraid of not being believed and ashamed.

No more. This is for me. I do not have to protect him or any abuser anymore.

If he harmed you, or you are a survivor and want to talk, DM me. I may need time to respond.

My heart breaks for us who’ve been abused. I see you, I hear you, and I love you. YOU DIDN’T DO ANYTHING WRONG.

Need support now?
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2 days ago
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Where should my twin go next?? Tell me in the comments!

She’s on the Amalfi Coast…
Golden hour…
Someone’s bringing her a Prosecco any minute now. (What a life!)

Me? Still in my workout clothes. Hair: ponytail, once again. 😂

Being the face of your business sounds great until you realize — it never stops…

Every day: hair, makeup, lighting, an outfit that isn’t technically pajamas.

I did that for 20 years. Professionally. On IG and on actual television.

And then one day I stopped. Not because I got lazy — because I hit menopause and got tired. Like really tired. 🥱

Now my Twin does the showing up. My business keeps going.

And I’m having more fun creating content for myself and  clients!

So tell me 👇
WHERE SHOULD I SEND HER NEXT?

Drop a city in the comments. Top comment by Saturday — she’s going, and I’ll post the proof.

(She’ll go anywhere. She doesn’t get jet lag. Honestly rude.) by @arrianealexander
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2 months ago
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Creating an avatar is like stepping into my Ideal Scene — any look, any backdrop, any vibe I want. 

Facts:
🐆I would love to be wearing all leopard print all day everyday…

💪🏻And be super fit and tan…

😻And have a pet leopard… 

So why not create a fun & creative version of that for myself? 

Where am I now? 
On my couch in workout clothes, building my business behind the scenes… 
and finally having fun doing it.

Learning how to use AI to create content behind the scenes has changed my life and business. 😸

I broke through my own resistance to creating content that kept me stuck for years. 👊🏻

Want to get unstuck? Give me a YES below and I’ll message you.  I’ve got so many cool things cooking right now for you!! ⬇️ by @arrianealexander
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a year ago
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Vote for my Twin’s next stop: Dubai, Greece, or Biarritz? 👇

She’s already going to Madrid soon. After that it’s up to you.

Fun fact: I have never been to the Jersey Shore.

She has. 

In fur boots. On a boardwalk. In a shirt that says I’M BAD.

I own none of it. 😂

She went full Jersey Shore because it was fun. That’s the only reason. 

Me: couch, hoodie, messy ponytail, cup of tea.

I spent twenty years doing hair and makeup before I’d let anyone see me. 

Now my Twin walks the boardwalk and I make the tea.

I laugh out loud every time I build one of these.  Content creation can actually be FUN.

It’s the whole reason I teach OMG That’s Me AI Twin Training.

Dubai, Greece, or Biarritz? 👇

#aitwin #midlifewomen #contentcreator #facelesscontent #digitalwealthsuite by @arrianealexander
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a month ago
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I didn’t post for three weeks.

It’s always the same reasons…
💁🏼‍♀️Hair on day of dry shampoo. 
😴Tired. 
🏋️‍♀️Want to lose a few pounds first. 
🫪No idea what to say today.

So the post doesn’t happen, and then it doesn’t happen again tomorrow.

Sound familiar?

What fixed it for me was making content fun again😎

Now I can create:
A cute kitten in a flower garden. 
🤠A Neon cowgirl at the fair. 
🐎A horse walking down a city street at midnight. 

I made all three in one afternoon, without leaving the couch. 

When it’s fun, you make more of it…

Make more of it, and you get consistent…

Being consistent is what makes sales.

With an AI Twin, it’s still your message and your story…you just get to have more fun!

That’s what I teach inside OMG That’s Me AI Twin Training. 👯

Stay tuned!
#aitwin #midlifewomen #contentcreator #facelesscontent #digitalwealthsuite by @arrianealexander
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Which fail is your favorite? Mine’s the leg. 👇

I built an AI Twin so I could stop doing hair and makeup every day just to post something.

The first 32 came back as beautiful strangers... 

That’s AI’s default setting — polished, perfect, smoother than I have ever looked in my life.

Number 33 worked because I asked for the opposite:
Crow’s feet.
Size 14. 
Looks her actual age.

I wasn’t trying to get a better version of me. 
I was trying to get a real one.

Took me 33 tries to figure that out:)

I cracked the code so you can skip the 32 — that’s the whole reason I built OMG That’s Me Twin Training.
(You’re welcome for the fails. 😂)

#aitwin #aicontentcreation #facelesscontent #womeninbusiness digitalwealthsuite by @arrianealexander
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2 months ago
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Showing your face on-camera might be killing your business… 🫣

Not because you can’t show up.

Because you don’t WANT TO (and that’s ok!)

I’ve had plenty of conversations with my students about this topic lately…

…and decided to reach out to my friend @arrianealexander (the queen of content + AI!)

Next week, she’s hosting a FREE training to show you exactly HOW to grow your business without showing your face. 

Comment “ROADMAP” for the link + to save your seat! 👇🏼

#contenttips #contentideas #facelessmarketing #facelessbusiness taken in Lisbon, Portugal by @arrianealexander
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8 months ago
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If you only post on “good hair days”, your business is on pause.

You want to post consistently but then tell yourself:
 “my hair looks bad today”
 “I’m too tired for makeup”
 “I’ll film tomorrow”
(Sound familiar?…)😜

That’s not a strategy. That’s avoidance in mascara…

Truth: Your dream clients don’t care if you’re in glam or in PJs…
They care if you can help them…Period.👌🏼

Great news!! You can stay off camera, stay comfy…

and still create faceless content that makes you money on repeat.😎

So are you building a business…
 or just waiting for a “good hair day”? 👀

Give me a YES below  if this called you out (lovingly)🤩

(No shame, I’ve been there about 100,892 times as well…)🤪 by @arrianealexander
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10 months ago
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✨ That time a guy told me to lose 7 pounds… 🙄

This guy I was dating actually said:
“You’re really beautiful… but you’d look great if you lost 7 pounds.”

👉 Yep. He was an idiot.
👉 And yep… I wanted him to like me more. (I was young + dumb 🤦‍♀️)

But here’s the wild part… that insult is what led me to @hollyperkins. And her coaching changed everything for me. 💪

With Holly, I learned:
⭐️ The foundations of strength training (real results, not wasted cardio)
⭐️ How to fuel my body with food—not starve or binge
⭐️ The truth behind the myths we’ve been told about women’s fitness

Fast-forward: I’m 54, menopausal, and in the best shape of my life. Strong, defined, confident. 🔥

💥 Watch the replay of our LIVE convo—where Holly cuts through all the myths and nonsense keeping women stuck.

And don’t miss her FREE 3-Day Workshop: Mid-Life Muscle Mastery, starting Thursday! 🙌

👉 Link in comments below. by @arrianealexander
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a year ago
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Hunny, it’s taken me years, but…

I quit trying to be perfect… 
I quit stressing about the algorithm.. 
I quit caring what people thought… 🙅‍♀️

Instead, I:
👉 Built avatars that let me show up any way I want 🕺🏼

👉 Let AI do the heavy lifting (captions, content libraries, graphics, ideas — all done!) 💯

👉 Got creative with faceless visuals that felt fun again 🪩(*see disco ball*)

👉 Stopped giving a 💩 about fitting in, and started enjoying the process (*yes I do still love Party In The USA @mileycyrus )

The result? More freedom. More creativity. More sales. 💸

Your business gets to feel fun and aligned — not boring and forced.

👀 Drop a “FUN” below if you’re ready to let AI + avatars help you build your biz without the stress, and without ever having to be on camera! by @arrianealexander
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a year ago
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Don’t want to be on camera all the time? 🙋‍♀️ Same.

Guess what? 

You can create an amazing online biz without showing your face!

You don’t need dance moves, lip syncs, or a ring light.💃

You need Strategy.
Consistency.
Value.

Here’s how I build my faceless biz each day— I create:

1️⃣ Problem-solving content that actually helps people
2️⃣ Aesthetic faceless visuals (Content libraries, B-roll, Avatars...it’s all FUN!)
3️⃣ Consistency to build trust (*it takes someone more than 7 times to see your content before they trust or will buy from you!)
 4️⃣ Digital products that add value and sell 24/7 while I sleep 💸

Your old story: “I can’t do it” 
New story: “I can create the biz of my dreams without showing my face!”

Where do you need most help from the above list?  1,2,3 or 4?? ⬇️⬇️⬇️ by @arrianealexander
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a year ago
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If your Story views feel like a ghost town 👻… you’re not broken, your strategy is.

✨ The good news? It’s a super easy fix.

🚀 Once I discovered how to use AI prompts to help me create ideas and a strategy, Stories became easier and fun 🤩 

➡️ Swipe to get my exact tips to start making better stories now.

I’ve put together some amazing tools that teach you how to use AI to make your online business soooo much easier…and you don’t even have to show your face. 😎

How would you rate your expertise with AI to grow your online biz? ⬇️⬇️⬇️

1. Curious but don’t know where to start

2. A little skills and want to learn more 

3. I’m a whiz and always learning something new by @arrianealexander
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a year ago
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